Your answer stays sealed until everyone has answered.
Everyone in the group gets the same question. Nobody sees anyone else's answer until everyone has answered. No hedging, no reading the room, no quietly agreeing with whoever spoke first.
The first answer changes all the others
Ask a group anything and watch what happens. Someone answers first, and everyone after them adjusts - agreeing a little more than they meant to, softening the thing they were going to say. You end up with a conversation about the first answer instead of an answer from each person.
Answering at the same time, in private, removes that. What comes back is what each person actually thought before they knew what anyone else did.
How it works
- 1
Start a group
Two people or ten. Send them a link - they do not need an account first.
- 2
Everyone answers
The same question, privately. Your answer locks in the moment you send it.
- 3
It opens
Once everyone has answered, all the answers appear at once - and the conversation starts there.
Pick the kind of questions you want
Every group chooses what it is for, and only gets questions that suit it.
Dating
Get to know someone without either of you performing.
“What do you want from dating right now, honestly?”
More →
Couples
The questions you have been circling for months and never quite asked.
“What is something you need more of that you have never asked for?”
More →
Friends & family
Lighter, and better than another round of how-was-your-week.
“What is a memory of us you think about often?”
More →
Teams
Find out what people think before they hear what the manager thinks.
“What is the thing everyone privately thinks but nobody says?”
More →
Faith groups
Room for honesty in a setting where honesty is often hardest.
“What is a question about faith you have never asked out loud?”
More →
What you also get
- A question a day, if you want one
- Set a time and one question arrives each day. Or release them yourself, whenever suits.
- Nobody gets stuck waiting
- Set a deadline and the answers open when it passes, whether or not everyone replied. Late answers are still welcome, and marked as such.
- Guess what they said
- On multiple choice questions, predict each other's answers before the reveal. You find out how well you actually know each other.
- Everything is kept
- Every revealed question and answer stays in your history, so you can look back at what everyone said a year ago.
Ask the question you have been avoiding
It takes a minute to set up, and the people you invite do not need an account to be invited.
Start with someone