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# 8 repair questions

For couples

1. After we argue, what helps you come back to me fastest?
2. What does a real apology from me sound like?
3. What is a small thing that would tell you I have actually heard you, not just said sorry?
4. Which of these helps you most after a hard conversation?

   Options: Being left alone for a bit · A hug with no words · Talking it fully through · Doing something normal together · Hearing that you are sorry again
5. What do you need to hear from me after a fight that you have never quite got?
6. Is there a hurt between us that we papered over rather than repaired?
7. What do you do to make peace that costs you more than I realise?
8. When you replay our worst argument, what do you wish you had done differently, and what do you wish I had?

## Try answering these at the same time

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