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# 8 planning together questions

For couples

1. What is one thing we should spend money on this year that we keep saying no to?
2. Which of these should we sort out first?

   Options: Where we live · Money · Family time · Our health · Our social life · A holiday
3. What is a plan of ours that you have quietly given up on?
4. What is something you want in the next five years that we have not planned for?
5. Who is the planner, who is the dreamer, and does it work?
6. What do you want to protect in our life, whatever else changes?
7. What decision did we make together that you now think was mostly mine, or mostly yours?
8. What would you want us to do if we had to start over somewhere new?

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