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# 12 money & values questions

For couples

1. What does money mean to you - security, freedom, status, or something else?
2. What is a purchase you regret and have never admitted to?
3. If we had to cut our spending in half, what would you protect first?
4. What do you believe about money that you learned from watching your family, and does it help us?
5. What is a purchase you hid, softened, or delayed telling me about?
6. Whose approval do you still want, and how does it shape what we do?
7. What would you do with a year off and no money worries, and would you want me there the whole time?
8. Which of these would you spend a windfall on first?

   Options: Paying something off · A trip · The house · Saving it · Giving some away
9. What is a thing you happily overpay for, and a thing you refuse to?
10. What did money feel like in your house growing up: tight, easy, unspoken?
11. What would you want us to do with more money that we do not do now?
12. What is a cause or value you would want us to give to, even when it is inconvenient?

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