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# 8 listening questions

For couples

1. What is a story from before we met that you have told me more than once, and why does it matter to you?
2. When did you last feel really listened to by me?
3. Which of these do I do when you are talking?

   Options: Listen properly · Wait to speak · Solve it · Look at my phone · Depends on the topic
4. What do you say that I never seem to hear?
5. What do you wish you could say to me once, and have it stick?
6. What have I said that you have kept, word for word?
7. What do you need to say that you have been waiting to be asked?
8. How can I tell when you want advice and when you want to be heard?

## Try answering these at the same time

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