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# 8 hard things questions

For families and friends

1. What is something hard you are carrying that this group could actually help with?
2. What was the hardest year of your life, and who got you through it?
3. How do you want people here to treat you when you are struggling?

   Options: Ask me directly · Distract me · Just show up · Give me space and check back · Feed me
4. What do you find hardest to ask this group for?
5. What is a fear you have about one of us that you have never voiced?
6. What grief are you still carrying that you think the group assumes is finished?
7. What is something you have never told this group because you decided they could not handle it?
8. If you were in real trouble tonight, who here would you call first, and why not the others?

## Try answering these at the same time

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