# Answersealed > Answersealed is a question-a-day app for two or more people. Everyone in a group answers the same question in private, and nobody sees anyone else's answer until everyone has answered. Who it is for: couples, people dating, families and friends, teams at work, and faith groups. A group can be two people or many, with leaders who plan the questions. How it works: the group gets one question at a time, from a shared library of written questions or ones its leaders write. Each answer is sealed when it is sent. When everyone has answered, or a deadline passes, all the answers open at once and the group can talk about them. What is public: this site publishes the shared question library as readable question packs. Nothing anyone answers is ever public: answers, comments and members are private to the people in a group. A group its owner lists in the directory shows only its name, description, type and rough size. Free to start, on the web; phone apps are coming. * * * Page: [Answersealed · Answers stay sealed until everyone answers](https://answersealed.com/) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md) # Your answer stays sealed until everyone has answered. Everyone in the group gets the same question. Nobody sees anyone else's answer until everyone has answered. No hedging, no reading the room, no quietly agreeing with whoever spoke first. Free to start · 2,593 questions ready ## The first answer changes all the others Ask a group anything and watch what happens. Someone answers first, and everyone after them adjusts - agreeing a little more than they meant to, softening the thing they were going to say. You end up with a conversation about the first answer instead of an answer from each person. Answering at the same time, in private, removes that. What comes back is what each person actually thought before they knew what anyone else did. ## How it works ### Start a group 1\. Two people or ten. Send them a link - they do not need an account first. ### Everyone answers 2\. The same question, privately. Your answer locks in the moment you send it. ### It opens 3\. Once everyone has answered, all the answers appear at once - and the conversation starts there. ## Pick the kind of questions you want Every group chooses what it is for, and only gets questions that suit it. ### Dating Get to know someone without either of you performing. “What do you want from dating right now, honestly?” [More →](https://answersealed.com/for/dating) ### Couples The questions you have been circling for months and never quite asked. “What is something you need more of that you have never asked for?” [More →](https://answersealed.com/for/couples) ### Friends & family Lighter, and better than another round of how-was-your-week. “What is a memory of us you think about often?” [More →](https://answersealed.com/for/family) ### Teams Find out what people think before they hear what the manager thinks. “What is the thing everyone privately thinks but nobody says?” [More →](https://answersealed.com/for/teams) ### Faith groups Room for honesty in a setting where honesty is often hardest. “What is a question about faith you have never asked out loud?” [More →](https://answersealed.com/for/faith) ## What you also get - **A question a day, if you want one**: Set a time and one question arrives each day. Or release them yourself, whenever suits. - **Nobody gets stuck waiting**: Set a deadline and the answers open when it passes, whether or not everyone replied. Late answers are still welcome, and marked as such. - **Guess what they said**: On multiple choice questions, predict each other's answers before the reveal. You find out how well you actually know each other. - **Everything is kept**: Every revealed question and answer stays in your history, so you can look back at what everyone said a year ago. ## Ask the question you have been avoiding It takes a minute to set up, and the people you invite do not need an account to be invited. * * * Page: [Dating: find out what they actually think](https://answersealed.com/for/dating) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/for/dating) Answersealed for dating # Get to know someone without either of you performing. You both get the same question. Neither of you sees the other's answer until you have both answered. On a date, the second person to speak always shapes their answer to the first. Here, nobody can. Free. Send them a link; they do not need an account first. 668 questions written for dating. ## The third date problem By the third date you know their coffee order and where they grew up, and almost nothing that matters. The real questions - what they want, what ended the last one, whether they want children - feel too early to ask out loud, so nobody does, and you find out in month six. A question a day, answered in private, lets you ask early without it being a big conversation. And because neither of you can see the other's answer first, what you get is what they actually think, not a version tuned to yours. ### No one goes second Both answers lock in before either is shown. You cannot soften yours to match theirs, and neither can they. ### Light first, then honest It starts easy - Saturdays, coffee, worst first dates - and unlocks the deeper questions as you go, so the hard ones arrive when they are welcome. ### Guess what they said On multiple choice, predict their answer before the reveal. Being right, or being surprised, is the whole point. ## Ask the first one tonight. Free. Send them a link; they do not need an account first. Also for [couples](https://answersealed.com/for/couples), [family & friends](https://answersealed.com/for/family), [teams](https://answersealed.com/for/teams) and [faith groups](https://answersealed.com/for/faith). * * * Page: [Couples: the questions you have been circling](https://answersealed.com/for/couples) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/for/couples) Answersealed for couples # The questions you have been circling for months, asked and answered in one evening. One question a day for the two of you. Neither sees the other's answer until both have answered, so the answer you get is the real one, not the one adjusted to yours. Free for two. Send them a link; they do not need an account first. 668 questions written for couples. ## You already know how the conversation goes Every couple has the questions they never quite ask: what you need more of, what you have quietly tolerated, what you are still holding from an old argument. Asked out loud, they become an evening. Answered in private, at the same time, they become a sentence each - and then a much better evening. Depth unlocks as you go, so the app starts light and earns the right to go deeper. And once a round reveals, there is a place to talk about it. ## Questions you will be asked A few from the 64 categories written for couples. They start light and go deeper as you answer. - What did I do this week that you appreciated and did not mention? (Appreciation) - What is your favourite ordinary moment in our week? (Everyday) - What makes you feel most wanted? (Desire) - After we argue, what helps you come back to me fastest? (Repair) - What is the kindest thing you have thought about me and never said out loud? (Vulnerability) - Where do you see us in five years, honestly rather than hopefully? (Future) ### Both answer first Your answer locks in the moment you send it. Nobody anchors on the other. ### It goes deeper over time Light, then Closer, then Deep, unlocked by answering together. You never get the hard question on day one. ### Streaks and reveals A daily rhythm with a reminder, a reveal you both see at once, and a record of everything you have answered. ## Ask the first one tonight. Free for two. Send them a link; they do not need an account first. Also for [dating](https://answersealed.com/for/dating), [family & friends](https://answersealed.com/for/family), [teams](https://answersealed.com/for/teams) and [faith groups](https://answersealed.com/for/faith). * * * Page: [Family and friends: better than how-was-your-week](https://answersealed.com/for/family) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/for/family) Answersealed for family & friends # Better than another round of how was your week. One question for the whole group, answered privately by everyone, revealed all at once. Siblings, old friends, a family that only meets at Christmas. Free to start. Invite by link; nobody needs an account first. 541 questions written for family & friends. ## Groups have a loudest voice In any group, someone answers first and everyone else adjusts. The quiet one never says the thing. Answering at the same time, in private, gives every person the same weight - and the reveal is the most interesting five minutes the group has had in months. Stories, traditions, grief, hard things, gratitude: hundreds of questions that fit a group of people who already know each other and have stopped asking. ## Questions you will be asked A few from the 58 categories written for family & friends. They start light and go deeper as you answer. - Tell us about a time you got completely lost, and how you got back. (Stories) - What is a memory of us you think about often? (Memories) - What is a tradition in this group or family that you would fight to keep? (Traditions) - Who in this group did something for you this year that you have not properly thanked them for? (Giving Thanks) - What is something hard you are carrying that this group could actually help with? (Hard Things) - What is the best advice you have ever been given? (Reflection) ### Everyone gets heard The reveal shows every answer side by side. Nobody dominates and nobody hides. ### Built for groups A leader can plan the questions, or let the app deal them. Discussion opens under every reveal. ### A reason to stay in touch A question a day is a small, regular reason to hear from people you love and never call. ## Ask the first one tonight. Free to start. Invite by link; nobody needs an account first. Also for [dating](https://answersealed.com/for/dating), [couples](https://answersealed.com/for/couples), [teams](https://answersealed.com/for/teams) and [faith groups](https://answersealed.com/for/faith). * * * Page: [Teams: what people think before they hear the manager](https://answersealed.com/for/teams) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/for/teams) Answersealed for teams # Find out what your team thinks before they hear what the manager thinks. The same question to everyone, answered in private, revealed together. No anchoring on the most senior voice, no reading the room. Free to start. Invite by link; nobody needs an account first. 451 questions written for teams. ## The first answer in the meeting is the only one you get Ask a team a real question in a room and you get one answer and six variations on it. Ask it here and you get seven. Retrospectives, check-ins, feedback, honesty about workload: the questions teams need answered and never quite get. Leaders can plan a sequence, set a daily rhythm, and see the numbers over time. Answers are never visible early, to anyone, including the person who set the question. ## Questions you will be asked A few from the 50 categories written for teams. They start light and go deeper as you answer. - What is something this team does well that we never stop to acknowledge? (Team Health) - What is the most useful piece of feedback you have ever been given? (Feedback) - What is one thing we should stop doing after this project? (Retrospective) - Which meeting would you cut first? (Ways of Working) - What makes you trust a colleague? (Trust) - Who on this team did something this week that deserved more notice than it got? (Recognition) ### No anchoring Every answer is written before any is seen. The manager's view carries the same weight as everyone else's. ### Rhythm without meetings A daily or weekly question with a reminder, answered in two minutes, revealed when everyone is in. ### Questions that matter Team health, feedback, retrospectives, onboarding, leaving well - hundreds written for work. ## Ask the first one tonight. Free to start. Invite by link; nobody needs an account first. Also for [dating](https://answersealed.com/for/dating), [couples](https://answersealed.com/for/couples), [family & friends](https://answersealed.com/for/family) and [faith groups](https://answersealed.com/for/faith). * * * Page: [Faith groups: room for honesty](https://answersealed.com/for/faith) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/for/faith) Answersealed for faith groups # Room for honesty in a setting where honesty is often hardest. One question for the group, answered privately, revealed together. A small group, a leadership team, a youth group, a study. Free to start. Invite by link; nobody needs an account first. 418 questions written for faith groups. ## Everyone says the right thing In a room, people say what they think they should. Answering in private first changes that: doubt, prayer that has gone quiet, the passage you struggle with, the thing you have never said in church. Revealed together, it becomes the conversation the group was meant for. Leaders can set a curriculum, the group has a prayer board beside the questions, and there are questions for every season from Advent to the doubting ones. ## Questions you will be asked A few from the 48 categories written for faith groups. They start light and go deeper as you answer. - Which passage of scripture has meant the most to you this year, and why? (Scripture) - What did you believe as a child that you understand differently now? (Doubt) - What do you find hardest about prayer? (Prayer) - When did this group last make a real difference to your week? (Community) - What has suffering taught you that comfort never could? (Suffering) - What is something you are hoping for this year that feels almost too much to say? (Hope) ### Honest before it is public Each answer is written before any is seen. Nobody has to be the first to admit the doubt. ### Made for leaders Plan a sequence for the term, or let the app deal from hundreds of faith questions at the group's depth. ### Prayer alongside A prayer board with requests, answered prayers and a way to say you have prayed - anonymous when it needs to be. ## Ask the first one tonight. Free to start. Invite by link; nobody needs an account first. Also for [dating](https://answersealed.com/for/dating), [couples](https://answersealed.com/for/couples), [family & friends](https://answersealed.com/for/family) and [teams](https://answersealed.com/for/teams). * * * Page: [Question packs: questions worth asking](https://answersealed.com/questions) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions) # Questions worth asking 2,591 questions grouped by topic — for couples, friends and family, teams, and faith groups. Read them here, or answer them together in Answersealed, where nobody sees anyone's answer until everyone has answered. ## Anyone - [Age](https://answersealed.com/questions/age): 8 questions - [Alone](https://answersealed.com/questions/alone): 8 questions - [Anger](https://answersealed.com/questions/anger): 7 questions - [Apologies](https://answersealed.com/questions/apologies): 8 questions - [Beginnings](https://answersealed.com/questions/beginnings): 8 questions - [Beliefs](https://answersealed.com/questions/beliefs): 9 questions - [Big Questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/big-questions): 8 questions - [Changing Mind](https://answersealed.com/questions/changing-mind): 8 questions - [Choices](https://answersealed.com/questions/choices): 8 questions - [Coping](https://answersealed.com/questions/coping): 8 questions - [Culture](https://answersealed.com/questions/culture): 9 questions - [Curiosity](https://answersealed.com/questions/curiosity): 8 questions - [Endings](https://answersealed.com/questions/endings): 8 questions - [Fear](https://answersealed.com/questions/fear): 7 questions - [Friendship](https://answersealed.com/questions/friendship): 8 questions - [Gifts & Generosity](https://answersealed.com/questions/gifts-generosity): 8 questions - [Habits & Quirks](https://answersealed.com/questions/habits-quirks): 11 questions - [Icebreakers](https://answersealed.com/questions/icebreakers): 20 questions - [Identity](https://answersealed.com/questions/identity): 8 questions - [Joy](https://answersealed.com/questions/joy): 8 questions - [Little Tells](https://answersealed.com/questions/little-tells): 8 questions - [Mortality](https://answersealed.com/questions/mortality): 8 questions - [Music](https://answersealed.com/questions/music): 8 questions - [Names](https://answersealed.com/questions/names): 8 questions - [Place](https://answersealed.com/questions/place): 9 questions - [Plans](https://answersealed.com/questions/plans): 8 questions - [Possessions](https://answersealed.com/questions/possessions): 8 questions - [Pride](https://answersealed.com/questions/pride): 8 questions - [Promises](https://answersealed.com/questions/promises): 8 questions - [Recommendations](https://answersealed.com/questions/recommendations): 8 questions - [Regret](https://answersealed.com/questions/regret): 7 questions - [Reputation](https://answersealed.com/questions/reputation): 8 questions - [Rest & Play](https://answersealed.com/questions/rest-play): 8 questions - [Rhythms](https://answersealed.com/questions/rhythms): 8 questions - [Rules](https://answersealed.com/questions/rules): 8 questions - [Saying No](https://answersealed.com/questions/saying-no): 8 questions - [Secrets](https://answersealed.com/questions/secrets): 8 questions - [Senses](https://answersealed.com/questions/senses): 8 questions - [Strangers](https://answersealed.com/questions/strangers): 8 questions - [Strengths & Flaws](https://answersealed.com/questions/strengths-flaws): 8 questions - [Teachers](https://answersealed.com/questions/teachers): 8 questions - [Thankful](https://answersealed.com/questions/thankful): 8 questions - [This or That](https://answersealed.com/questions/this-or-that): 20 questions - [Time](https://answersealed.com/questions/time): 8 questions - [Today](https://answersealed.com/questions/today): 8 questions - [Turning Points](https://answersealed.com/questions/turning-points): 11 questions - [Where You Live](https://answersealed.com/questions/where-you-live): 8 questions - [Wisdom](https://answersealed.com/questions/wisdom): 8 questions - [Year So Far](https://answersealed.com/questions/year-so-far): 8 questions ## Church / Faith - [Church](https://answersealed.com/questions/church): 8 questions - [Community](https://answersealed.com/questions/community): 13 questions - [Creativity](https://answersealed.com/questions/creativity): 8 questions - [Difference](https://answersealed.com/questions/difference): 8 questions - [Doubt](https://answersealed.com/questions/doubt): 10 questions - [Doubting Seasons](https://answersealed.com/questions/doubting-seasons): 10 questions - [Encouragement](https://answersealed.com/questions/encouragement): 8 questions - [Evening](https://answersealed.com/questions/evening): 7 questions - [Everyday Faith](https://answersealed.com/questions/everyday-faith): 8 questions - [Faith in Public](https://answersealed.com/questions/faith-in-public): 8 questions - [Faithfulness](https://answersealed.com/questions/faithfulness): 8 questions - [Family & Faith](https://answersealed.com/questions/family-faith): 7 questions - [Forgiveness](https://answersealed.com/questions/forgiveness): 7 questions - [Friendship in Faith](https://answersealed.com/questions/friendship-in-faith): 10 questions - [Generosity](https://answersealed.com/questions/generosity): 8 questions - [Grace](https://answersealed.com/questions/grace): 8 questions - [Gratitude](https://answersealed.com/questions/gratitude): 9 questions - [Guidance](https://answersealed.com/questions/guidance): 8 questions - [Habits](https://answersealed.com/questions/habits): 9 questions - [Healing](https://answersealed.com/questions/healing): 8 questions - [Hope](https://answersealed.com/questions/hope): 8 questions - [Hospitality](https://answersealed.com/questions/hospitality): 8 questions - [Knowing God](https://answersealed.com/questions/knowing-god): 10 questions - [Leaders](https://answersealed.com/questions/leaders): 12 questions - [Marriage & Faith](https://answersealed.com/questions/marriage-faith): 10 questions - [Mission](https://answersealed.com/questions/mission): 9 questions - [Money & Faith](https://answersealed.com/questions/money-faith): 8 questions - [Morning](https://answersealed.com/questions/morning): 5 questions - [Parents of Faith](https://answersealed.com/questions/parents-of-faith): 10 questions - [Peace](https://answersealed.com/questions/peace): 8 questions - [Prayer](https://answersealed.com/questions/prayer): 11 questions - [Prayer Requests](https://answersealed.com/questions/prayer-requests): 8 questions - [Presence](https://answersealed.com/questions/presence): 9 questions - [Purpose](https://answersealed.com/questions/purpose): 9 questions - [Sabbath & Rest](https://answersealed.com/questions/sabbath-rest): 9 questions - [Scripture](https://answersealed.com/questions/scripture): 11 questions - [Seasons](https://answersealed.com/questions/seasons): 12 questions - [Service](https://answersealed.com/questions/service): 8 questions - [Small Group Basics](https://answersealed.com/questions/small-group-basics): 10 questions - [Stewardship](https://answersealed.com/questions/stewardship): 8 questions - [Study](https://answersealed.com/questions/study): 10 questions - [Suffering](https://answersealed.com/questions/suffering): 8 questions - [Temptation](https://answersealed.com/questions/temptation): 8 questions - [Weekly Check-in](https://answersealed.com/questions/weekly-check-in): 3 questions - [Work & Calling](https://answersealed.com/questions/work-calling): 9 questions - [Worship](https://answersealed.com/questions/worship): 8 questions - [Year in Faith](https://answersealed.com/questions/year-in-faith): 7 questions - [Youth](https://answersealed.com/questions/youth): 12 questions ## Couple - [Adventure](https://answersealed.com/questions/adventure): 8 questions - [Anniversary](https://answersealed.com/questions/anniversary): 12 questions - [Anticipation](https://answersealed.com/questions/anticipation): 8 questions - [Appreciation](https://answersealed.com/questions/appreciation): 12 questions - [Becoming](https://answersealed.com/questions/becoming): 8 questions - [Blended Family](https://answersealed.com/questions/blended-family): 9 questions - [Body & Health](https://answersealed.com/questions/body-health): 9 questions - [Boundaries](https://answersealed.com/questions/boundaries): 10 questions - [Check-in For Two](https://answersealed.com/questions/check-in-for-two): 8 questions - [Confidence](https://answersealed.com/questions/confidence): 8 questions - [Conflict](https://answersealed.com/questions/conflict): 18 questions - [Date Night](https://answersealed.com/questions/date-night): 20 questions - [Decisions](https://answersealed.com/questions/decisions): 12 questions - [Desire](https://answersealed.com/questions/desire): 16 questions - [Early Days](https://answersealed.com/questions/early-days): 18 questions - [Empty Nest](https://answersealed.com/questions/empty-nest): 9 questions - [Everyday](https://answersealed.com/questions/everyday): 16 questions - [Fairness](https://answersealed.com/questions/fairness): 8 questions - [Firsts](https://answersealed.com/questions/firsts): 8 questions - [Food & Home](https://answersealed.com/questions/food-home): 8 questions - [Friends & Social](https://answersealed.com/questions/friends-social): 7 questions - [Future](https://answersealed.com/questions/future): 22 questions - [Getting Married](https://answersealed.com/questions/getting-married): 9 questions - [Growth](https://answersealed.com/questions/growth): 10 questions - [Hard Conversations](https://answersealed.com/questions/hard-conversations): 8 questions - [Home](https://answersealed.com/questions/home): 8 questions - 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[Looking After Each Other](https://answersealed.com/questions/looking-after-each-other): 8 questions - [Love Languages](https://answersealed.com/questions/love-languages): 8 questions - [Memory Lane](https://answersealed.com/questions/memory-lane): 8 questions - [Money & Values](https://answersealed.com/questions/money-values): 12 questions - [Moods](https://answersealed.com/questions/moods): 8 questions - [Mornings & Nights](https://answersealed.com/questions/mornings-nights): 8 questions - [New Parents](https://answersealed.com/questions/new-parents): 22 questions - [Our Traditions](https://answersealed.com/questions/our-traditions): 8 questions - [Past](https://answersealed.com/questions/past): 16 questions - [Planning Together](https://answersealed.com/questions/planning-together): 8 questions - [Play](https://answersealed.com/questions/play): 12 questions - [Quick Fixes](https://answersealed.com/questions/quick-fixes): 8 questions - [Repair](https://answersealed.com/questions/repair): 8 questions - [Risk](https://answersealed.com/questions/risk): 8 questions - [Screens](https://answersealed.com/questions/screens): 8 questions - [Self](https://answersealed.com/questions/self): 8 questions - [Small Things](https://answersealed.com/questions/small-things): 8 questions - [Stress & Support](https://answersealed.com/questions/stress-support): 12 questions - [Together Time](https://answersealed.com/questions/together-time): 8 questions - [Two Careers](https://answersealed.com/questions/two-careers): 10 questions - [Us](https://answersealed.com/questions/us): 8 questions - [Values](https://answersealed.com/questions/values): 8 questions - [Vulnerability](https://answersealed.com/questions/vulnerability): 19 questions - [Words](https://answersealed.com/questions/words): 8 questions - [Your World](https://answersealed.com/questions/your-world): 8 questions ## Dating - [Background](https://answersealed.com/questions/background): 9 questions - [Beliefs & Values](https://answersealed.com/questions/beliefs-values): 10 questions - [Chemistry](https://answersealed.com/questions/chemistry): 10 questions - [Dealbreakers](https://answersealed.com/questions/dealbreakers): 10 questions - [First Dates](https://answersealed.com/questions/first-dates): 12 questions - [Fun Facts](https://answersealed.com/questions/fun-facts): 10 questions - [Getting to Know You](https://answersealed.com/questions/getting-to-know-you): 15 questions - [Honest Questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/honest-questions): 8 questions - [How You Are](https://answersealed.com/questions/how-you-are): 10 questions - [Life & Interests](https://answersealed.com/questions/life-interests): 10 questions - [What You Want](https://answersealed.com/questions/what-you-want): 9 questions ## Family - [Advice](https://answersealed.com/questions/advice): 8 questions - [Belonging Here](https://answersealed.com/questions/belonging-here): 8 questions - [Book Club](https://answersealed.com/questions/book-club): 8 questions - [Caring](https://answersealed.com/questions/caring): 8 questions - 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You find out what people thought before they knew what anyone else said. * * * Page: [8 across teams questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/across-teams) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/across-teams) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Across Teams # 8 across teams questions For teams 1. What is the most useful thing a colleague from another team did for you this month? 2. Which other team do you understand least? Options: Sales · Engineering · Finance · Marketing · Support · Leadership 3. What do other teams get wrong about us? 4. What do we get wrong about them? 5. Where does work fall between teams and land on nobody? 6. What is a rivalry between teams here that costs the company? 7. Who in another team should be in this room, and why are they not? 8. 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What adventure did you have before me that I should know about? 6. Which of us is braver, and about what? 7. What have we stopped saying yes to? 8. What would you do this year if you knew you could not fail, and would I be in it? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 advice questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/advice) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/advice) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Advice # 8 advice questions For families and friends 1. What is the best advice anyone in this group has ever given you? 2. What is a piece of advice you ignored and were right to? 3. 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When was anger the right response, and you did not have it? 6. What do people see when you are angry, and what are you actually feeling? 7. What did you learn from the last time you lost your temper? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 anniversary questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/anniversary) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/anniversary) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Anniversary # 12 anniversary questions For couples 1. What is one thing we did this year that we should do every year? 2. What is your favourite photo of us from this year? 3. What was the hardest week of this year for us, and what did we learn? 4. What did I do this year that you will still remember in twenty? 5. What is one word for this year of us, and one for the year ahead? 6. What did you learn about me this year that you did not know? 7. Which of these did this year have most of? Options: Laughter · Change · Hard work · Rest · Distance · Growth 8. What is a promise you want to make me for next year, out loud? 9. What is something you forgave this year that you never mentioned? 10. What is the best thing about being us, right now, in this exact season? 11. What would you like less of next year, in one honest sentence? 12. If this year were a chapter title, what would it be? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What have you never been apologised for that you still wait for? 6. What apology did you give that you did not mean? 7. How do you know when someone is really sorry? 8. What do you want to be sorry for less next year? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 appreciation questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/appreciation) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/appreciation) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Appreciation # 12 appreciation questions For couples 1. What did I do this week that you appreciated and did not mention? 2. What is something I am good at that I do not give myself credit for? 3. What do your friends say about me that you agree with? 4. What is a habit of mine that makes your life easier? 5. Which of these do I do best, honestly? Options: Listening · Making you laugh · Getting things done · Calming you down · Showing up when it counts 6. What is one thing I did early on that made you think this could last? 7. What do I do when you are ill or low that you never want me to stop doing? 8. What have you watched me get better at? 9. When did I surprise you by being braver than you expected? 10. What is something I have taught you without knowing it? 11. What did I do this month that you want more of? 12. What is something you rely on me for that you would struggle to do alone? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is a hard thing from your past you have made peace with? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 becoming questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/becoming) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/becoming) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Becoming # 8 becoming questions For couples 1. What is something you are learning about yourself lately? 2. Which of these are you working on, quietly? Options: Patience · Confidence · Health · A skill · Letting go of something · Nothing, I am at peace 3. What do you want to be better at with me by next year? 4. What have I helped you become? 5. What have I made harder for you to become? 6. What would you want me to notice about who you are becoming? 7. What part of your growth do you keep private, and why? 8. Who do you want us to be in ten years, as a pair, not as individuals? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 beginnings questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/beginnings) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/beginnings) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Beginnings # 8 beginnings questions 1. What is your earliest memory? 2. Which of these beginnings was the best? Options: A new job · A new home · A new person · A new year · Getting out of something 3. What is something you started this year? 4. 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What are you certain of that you cannot prove? 2. What did you believe at twenty that you have quietly dropped? 3. What is something you believe that most people here probably do not? 4. Which of these do you trust most? Options: My gut · Experts · Experience · The people I love · Data · None of the above fully 5. What would it take to change your mind about something you feel strongly about? 6. What is a belief you hold mostly because of who you would disappoint by dropping it? 7. What do you think happens after we die, in one honest sentence? 8. What is the kindest thing you believe about people, and the least kind? 9. What do you think luck is? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is a belief you hold that a partner would need to at least respect? 10. How do you want to be told if this is not working? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 belonging questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/belonging) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/belonging) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Belonging # 9 belonging questions For teams 1. What made you feel part of this team, and when did it happen? 2. What do you wish someone had told you in your first month here? 3. How much of yourself do you bring to work? Options: Nearly all · The professional parts · A version that fits in · As little as I can · It depends on who is in the room 4. Who on this team do you know least, and what would you like to ask them? 5. When did you last feel like an outsider here? 6. What part of your background or life do you keep out of work, and why? 7. What do you edit out of yourself at work that costs you energy every day? 8. Who on this team would you notice if they left, and have you told them? 9. What is the smallest thing that would make you feel more at home here? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What would you lose if this group ended? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 big questions questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/big-questions) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/big-questions) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Big Questions # 8 big questions questions 1. What is a question you have asked yourself for years? 2. Which of these do you think about most? Options: Why we are here · What happens after · Whether I am doing it right · Whether people are good · What is for dinner, honestly 3. What is a question you would want answered before you die? 4. What do you believe the point of a life is, in one sentence? 5. What is a question you have stopped asking, and why? 6. What question do you wish people asked you? 7. What question would you be afraid to hear the honest answer to? 8. What is a question this group should be asking itself? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 blended family questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/blended-family) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/blended-family) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Blended Family # 9 blended family questions For couples 1. What is a hard thing about your children, or mine, that you find awkward to raise? 2. Which of these is the trickiest part of our family setup? Options: The ex · Different rules in different houses · Loyalty · Money · Time · Where we all sit at the table 3. What do you want my children to call you, and have you said? 4. What do you need from me when your ex is being difficult? 5. What do you think the children say about us in the other house? 6. When do you feel like an outsider in your own family, and what would help? 7. What tradition could be ours, belonging to nobody's old life? 8. What have you had to give up to make this family work? 9. What do you love about how the children are together? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What would you like to move your body more for: strength, calm, fun, or company? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 book club questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/book-club) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/book-club) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Book Club # 8 book club questions For families and friends 1. What is a character in a book you would not want to have dinner with? 2. What book did you pretend to have finished? 3. Which of these is the real reason you come? Options: The books · The people · The wine · Being made to read · Arguing 4. What book changed your mind about a real person in your life? 5. What is a book you loved that you would be embarrassed to admit here? 6. What did the last book get right about a life like yours? 7. What do you find hardest to talk about in this group: the book or your life? 8. Who in this group would you trust to choose a book for you, and who would you not? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 boundaries questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/boundaries) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/boundaries) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Boundaries # 10 boundaries questions For couples 1. What is a boundary you have never told me you needed? 2. How much time alone do you actually want, as opposed to what you ask for? 3. What is something I do that you have quietly tolerated? 4. What do you need to be alone for, that I sometimes take personally? 5. What is something about my family you have held back from saying? 6. What do I share about you with other people that you would rather I kept between us? 7. What do you need on a Sunday evening to feel ready for the week? 8. When you say you are fine, how often are you? Options: Almost always · Usually · About half the time · Rarely · It depends on the tone 9. What is something you would like me to ask before doing, rather than after? 10. Which of my questions do you find hardest to answer, and why? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What would you need to hear from your manager to stop working evenings? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 career questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/career) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/career) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Career # 10 career questions For teams 1. Where do you want to be in your work two years from now? 2. What skill are you most keen to develop next? 3. What part of your job would you happily never do again? 4. What would make you consider leaving? 5. What is the ambition you have not told your manager because it might change how they treat you? 6. What are you staying for, honestly? 7. How would you describe your energy for this work right now? Options: Genuinely engaged · Steady · Running on habit · Burning out · Already gone in my head 8. What is the next thing you want to learn, and does this job help? 9. What did you want to be at fifteen, and what of it survives in what you do now? 10. Which of these matters most to you in a job right now? Options: Pay · Learning · The people · Flexibility · Mission · Stability ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is the difference between helping and taking over, for you? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 celebrations questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/celebrations) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/celebrations) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Celebrations # 8 celebrations questions For families and friends 1. What is the best present you have given someone in this group? 2. Which of these is your birthday personality? Options: Big party · Dinner with a few · Ignore it entirely · Let others decide · A day alone doing exactly what I want 3. What is a celebration we got completely wrong, and laughed about later? 4. What do you want for your next birthday that nobody would think to give? 5. What milestone of yours went unmarked that you wish we had celebrated? 6. How do you want us to celebrate you when you are not here to argue? 7. What are we due to celebrate that we have not? 8. What was your best New Year's Eve, and your worst? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 change questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/change) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/change) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Change # 8 change questions For teams 1. What has changed here in the last year that you are glad about? 2. What change did we make that quietly did not work? 3. What are we still doing only because we have always done it? 4. What did you lose when we made the last big change, that nobody asked about? 5. What is the change you privately think this team needs but do not want to be the one to push? 6. What change in the last year has actually made things better? 7. What is a change you were wrong to resist? 8. What is a change you would make to how we start our week? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What have you changed your mind about in this group, because of this group? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 check-in questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/check-in) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/check-in) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Check-in # 12 check-in questions For families and friends 1. What is the best thing that happened to you this week? 2. What are you looking forward to? 3. What is something you are proud of that you have not mentioned? 4. What has been on your mind lately? 5. How are you actually doing this week? Options: Great · Fine · Up and down · Struggling a bit 6. When did you feel most alone while surrounded by the people in this group? 7. What are you dealing with right now that you have been making sound smaller than it is? 8. What is a hard conversation this group is overdue, and what is your part in avoiding it? 9. What do you most need from the people here in the next year? Options: To be checked on · Practical help · To be included more · Space · Honesty 10. On a scale from couch to marathon, how is your energy? Options: Couch · Slow walk · Steady · Good · Marathon 11. What are you looking forward to in the next month? 12. What have you been putting off that you would like someone to nag you about? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 chemistry questions for people dating](https://answersealed.com/questions/chemistry) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/chemistry) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Chemistry # 10 chemistry questions For people dating 1. How do you like to be asked out, in a way that makes you say yes? 2. Which of these makes you like someone more? Options: They ask good questions · They make me laugh · They are kind to strangers · They know what they want · They are easy to be quiet with 3. What is a small thing that makes you feel comfortable with someone new? 4. What do you find attractive that surprises people? 5. When did you last feel butterflies, and what caused them? 6. What do you do when you like someone, that you would rather they did not notice? 7. How do you show interest, and how do you want it shown? 8. What is the most romantic thing anyone has done for you? 9. What is a compliment you would like to hear and rarely do? 10. What does trust look like to you, early on? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 childhood questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/childhood) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/childhood) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Childhood # 10 childhood questions For families and friends 1. What were you like at fifteen? 2. What did you want to be when you grew up? 3. What is a family saying or habit you have carried into adult life? 4. What is something your family got right? 5. What do you carry from our family that you have decided not to pass on? 6. What did you believe about your childhood that you later found out was not the whole truth? 7. What was your favourite thing about the house you grew up in? 8. Who was your childhood hero, and did they hold up? 9. What were you like at school, according to your teachers? 10. What did you get told off for most as a child, and were they right? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What do you choose again and again, even though it does not work? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 church questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/church) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/church) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Church # 8 church questions For faith groups 1. What is the best thing about the church you grew up in, if you did? 2. Which of these keeps you coming on a Sunday? Options: The teaching · The people · The habit · The singing · My children · God, mostly 3. What do you love about this church that visitors would not see? 4. What would you change about a Sunday if nobody would be offended? 5. Who at church do you avoid, and what would it take to stop? 6. What has church asked of you that felt like too much, and what did you do? 7. What has church given you that nothing else could? 8. If you left this church, what would be the real reason? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 clubs & teams questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/clubs-teams) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/clubs-teams) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Clubs & Teams # 8 clubs & teams questions For families and friends 1. What is the best thing about this club, that a newcomer would not see? 2. Which of these keeps you turning up? Options: The people · The activity · The habit · Guilt · The pub after 3. What is a moment from this season you will remember? 4. Who does the unglamorous work here, and have we thanked them? 5. What is one thing you would change about how we run things, if nobody got offended? 6. When did this group nearly fall apart, and what held it? 7. What do you get from this that you do not get anywhere else? 8. Who do you wish would come back? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What has been miscommunicated on this team so long that it is now just true? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [13 community questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/community) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/community) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Community # 13 community questions For faith groups 1. What do you need from this community that you have not asked for? 2. When did this group last make a real difference to your week? 3. What keeps you from being fully honest in a group like this? 4. Who in your life needs company more than advice right now? 5. How has this week been for you spiritually? Options: Close and steady · Ordinary · Distracted · Difficult 6. What do you most want from our time together? Options: Study and learning · Honest conversation · Prayer · Friendship · Practical support 7. Who in this group do you find hardest to love, and what does that show you about yourself? 8. What have you been hurt by in church that you have never said to anyone here? 9. What would you need to hear from this group to feel you belong, not just attend? 10. What do you most need from this group right now? Options: Prayer · Practical help · To be asked hard questions · To be left in peace for a while · Company 11. Where does this community feel most alive to you? 12. Who in this group do you want to know better, and what would you ask them? 13. What do you wish we did more of when we meet? Options: Pray · Eat · Study · Laugh · Sit in silence · Do something for others ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 confidence questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/confidence) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/confidence) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Confidence # 8 confidence questions For couples 1. What do you think I find sexy about you that you do not see? 2. Which of these do you need to hear more of? Options: That I am attractive · That I am capable · That I am kind · That I am enough · That you chose right 3. What do you do well that you shrug off when I mention it? 4. When do you feel most confident with me, and when least? 5. What has knocked your confidence this year that I did not fully notice? 6. What do you want to be braver about in our relationship? 7. What have I done that made you feel small, even by accident? 8. What compliment from me would you believe? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [18 conflict questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/conflict) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/conflict) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Conflict # 18 conflict questions For couples 1. What is the fight we keep having that we have never actually resolved? 2. When we argue, what do you most wish I understood? 3. What do you do when you are hurt that I might be reading as something else? 4. What is the last thing you forgave me for without telling me? 5. Is there something you are still holding onto from an old argument? 6. Do we talk about difficult things enough? Options: Not nearly enough · About right · Too much - I need a break sometimes 7. When you are upset, what do you actually want from me? Options: To be listened to · To be left alone for a bit · To be held · To be helped to fix it 8. How do you know when I am angry with you, and how often are you right? 9. What do you say in your head during our arguments that you never say out loud? 10. Which of my apologies did not land, and what would have? 11. What is a topic you have stopped raising because it never goes anywhere? 12. When I go quiet, what do you think is happening, and what is actually happening for you? 13. What do you think I sacrifice for us that you have never acknowledged? 14. When something is wrong between us, what do you usually do first? Options: Go quiet and wait · Bring it up straight away · Get busy with something else · Talk to someone else about it · Pretend it is fine 15. What is a tiny thing that annoys you that you have decided to live with? 16. Which of us is more stubborn, and about what? 17. What is a disagreement we have that is actually fun? 18. What do you think we argue about that is really about something else? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [7 craft & customers questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/craft-customers) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/craft-customers) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Craft & Customers # 7 craft & customers questions For teams 1. What do our customers or users put up with that would embarrass us if we saw it? 2. What is the best thing we have shipped or delivered, in your view, and why? 3. What is a detail of our work that you care about more than anyone else does? 4. Where do we cut corners that we would not admit to a customer? 5. When did you last talk to an actual customer, and what surprised you? 6. What would you be embarrassed to explain about our product or service to a friend? 7. What do you wish customers understood about the work behind what they get? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 creativity questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/creativity) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/creativity) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Creativity # 8 creativity questions For faith groups 1. What is the best thing you have made or created, and did it feel like worship? 2. Which of these is how you create? Options: Words · Music · Food · Gardens · Buildings and things · Solutions to problems 3. What did you make as a child that you have never stopped wanting to make? 4. What would you create if you were not afraid of it being bad? 5. What has making something taught you about God? 6. What creative gift in this group is going unused? 7. What is a creative thing this group could make together? 8. What part of yourself do you only meet when you are making something? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 culture questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/culture) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/culture) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Culture # 9 culture questions 1. What is a book, film or show that changed how you see something? 2. What is a piece of music that you would want played at your funeral, and why? 3. What is something everyone loves that you just do not get? 4. Which of these could you not live without? Options: Books · Music · Films and TV · Sport · Games · Being outside 5. What is a story, true or not, that you keep coming back to? 6. What is a film you have seen more than five times? 7. What did you love as a teenager that you would defend today? 8. What is a piece of art, of any kind, that made you feel something you did not expect? 9. What is something you learned from a character that a real person never taught you? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What have you been curious about someone here but too polite to ask? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 daily stand-up questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/daily-stand-up) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/daily-stand-up) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Daily Stand-up # 8 daily stand-up questions For teams 1. What is one thing you want to be different by the end of the day? 2. Which of these is blocking you today? Options: Waiting on someone · Too many things · Not sure what matters · Tooling · Nothing, going well 3. What is the one thing you will finish today? 4. Who do you need five minutes with today? 5. What did yesterday teach you that changes today? 6. What is one thing you could take off someone else's plate today? 7. How are you, actually, in one honest word? 8. What would make today a good day? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [20 date night questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/date-night) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/date-night) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Date Night # 20 date night questions For couples 1. Starter, main or dessert: which one do you judge a restaurant by? Options: Starter · Main · Dessert · The bread · The wine list 2. If tonight had a soundtrack, what is the first song? 3. What is the best date we have ever had, and what made it? 4. What is a place you have always wanted to be taken to? 5. What would your perfect Friday night have looked like at 22, and what does it look like now? 6. Which of us is the better date, and what is your evidence? 7. What is a small luxury you would like more of on nights like this? 8. What is the worst date you ever went on, before me? 9. If we had to leave right now for anywhere in the world, where are we going? 10. Which of these would make tonight better? Options: Phones in a drawer · Somewhere new · Dancing · A long walk after · Going home early together 11. What is something you noticed about me tonight? 12. What is something you want to talk about that never comes up at home? 13. If we were strangers meeting tonight, what would you want to know about me first? 14. What is one thing you would change about how we spend our evenings? 15. What do you look forward to most when we have a night out planned? 16. What is a question you would ask me on a first date now that you did not know to ask then? 17. What is a compliment about me you would give to a stranger but rarely say to my face? 18. What is a place we have been together that you would go back to alone? 19. If we could eat at any table in the world tonight, whose? 20. What is one thing about tonight you want to remember in a year? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is something you need in a relationship that you have learned the hard way? 10. What would you want me to know about you before this goes further? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 decisions questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/decisions) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/decisions) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Decisions # 12 decisions questions For couples 1. What decision are we circling that we should just make? 2. On the decision in front of us, what is your gut saying, before any reasons? 3. What would you choose if you knew I would be fine with either? 4. What are you afraid we will regret, whichever way we go? 5. Which of these is doing the talking for you right now? Options: Money · Family · Fear · Ambition · Tiredness · What other people will think 6. What would the wisest person you know say we should do? 7. What do you need from me to be at peace with a decision you did not want? 8. If we do nothing, what happens in a year? 9. What is the smallest version of this decision we could try first? 10. Whose voice, other than ours, is loudest in this decision? 11. What is a way we could move or work that would suit you better than now? 12. What do you want that you have talked yourself out of wanting? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What do you need after a hard day that you have never spelled out for me? 11. Which of these do you most need from me right now? Options: To be listened to without advice · More touch · More time alone together · To be told what I am doing right · Help with something practical 12. What is the most attractive thing I do without trying? 13. Which of these is your love language, really? Options: Words · Time · Touch · Gifts · Things done for you 14. What is a date you would plan for me if money and time were no object? 15. What did you find attractive about me that surprised you? 16. When do you feel closest to me: talking, touching, doing, or resting? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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Who is not in this room because of a difference, and what is your part in that? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 disagreements questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/disagreements) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/disagreements) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Disagreements # 8 disagreements questions For families and friends 1. Which of these do you argue about most as a group? Options: Politics · Money · Who does what · The past · Food · Nothing, we avoid it 2. What is a disagreement we have that is really a disagreement about something else? 3. What do you avoid saying at gatherings to keep the peace, and is it worth it? 4. Who in this group do you disagree with most, and what do you admire about them? 5. What was our worst falling-out, and how did we get back? 6. What is a view of yours that has changed because of someone here? 7. What is a disagreement you have decided to lose for good? 8. What could we say to each other that we have never said, that would end an old argument? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What question about faith did you have as a child that nobody answered well? 10. What is one thing you believe with your whole heart, and one thing you believe by choice? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 doubting seasons questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/doubting-seasons) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/doubting-seasons) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Doubting Seasons # 10 doubting seasons questions For faith groups 1. What is a doubt you had this week, in the middle of an ordinary day? 2. Which of these is closest to where you are? Options: Questions but still here · Numb · Angry with God · Angry with the church · Quietly leaving · Coming back 3. What would you need this group to not say, if you told them where you really are? 4. What still holds, even now? 5. What did a past dry season teach you that you are relying on now? 6. Who do you know who kept going through a season like this, and what did they do? 7. What do you miss about faith when it felt simple? 8. What are you afraid this doubt says about you? 9. What would it look like to stay honest and stay in the room? 10. What is one thing you believe today, however small? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [18 early days questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/early-days) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/early-days) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Early Days # 18 early days questions For couples 1. What did you think when you first saw me? 2. What is something about me you are still working out? 3. What is a small thing I do that you already find endearing? 4. Which of these do you want to know about me next? Options: Your family · Your exes · Your money · Your faith · Your five year plan · Your worst habit 5. What is a story about yourself you have been saving for the right moment? 6. What did your friends say after they met me? 7. What are you nervous I will find out about you? 8. What did you learn from your last relationship that you are bringing to this one? 9. How do you like to be looked after when you are ill, so I get it right the first time? 10. What is a deal-breaker you have not mentioned yet? 11. What do you want this to become, and how fast? 12. What is something you are pretending to like for my sake? 13. When did you decide this was more than a fling? 14. What do you need to hear from me to relax into this? 15. What is your relationship with your ex like, and what should I know? 16. What do you do on a Sunday that I have not seen yet? 17. What is something you are proud of that you have not told me because it might sound like boasting? 18. What is the thing about me you would tell your best friend first? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 empty nest questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/empty-nest) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/empty-nest) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Empty Nest # 9 empty nest questions For couples 1. What are you looking forward to about the house being quieter? 2. What are you afraid we will find when the children are gone? 3. What did we used to do before children that we could do again? 4. Which of these do you want the next chapter to have? Options: Travel · A smaller house · New friends · A project together · More separate lives, kindly 5. Who are you, apart from being a parent? 6. What do you want our relationship with our grown children to be, and are we heading there? 7. What have the parenting years cost us that we should now repair? 8. What do you want to learn now that there is time? 9. What is a habit from busy years that we can finally drop? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 encouragement questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/encouragement) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/encouragement) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Encouragement # 8 encouragement questions For faith groups 1. What is a word of encouragement you received that you still carry? 2. Who in this group needs encouraging this week, and what would you say? 3. Which of these encourages you most? Options: Being told I am doing well · Being prayed for · Someone showing up · A verse at the right time · Being asked to help 4. What do you find hard about being encouraged? 5. When did you last encourage someone, and did it cost you anything? 6. What would you say to yourself a year ago, if you could? 7. Who encouraged you into faith, and have you told them what it did? 8. What do you need to hear this week that nobody has said? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 endings questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/endings) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/endings) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Endings # 8 endings questions 1. What is something you finished that you are proud of? 2. Which of these endings do you handle worst? Options: Jobs · Friendships · Holidays · Projects · Relationships · Books 3. What have you ended well, and how? 4. What did you not get to say goodbye to? 5. What needs to end in your life that you are keeping alive? 6. What ended without you noticing? 7. What ending are you grateful for now? 8. How do you want things to end, when they have to? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What do product or business people not understand about our work, and have we ever explained it well? 10. What is the incident you still think about? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [11 ethics & pressure questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/ethics-pressure) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/ethics-pressure) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Ethics & Pressure # 11 ethics & pressure questions For teams 1. When were you last asked to do something that felt wrong, and what did you do? 2. What do we do here that we would not want written about? 3. Where does the pressure in this team come from, really? Options: Customers · Leadership · Each other · Ourselves · A deadline nobody questioned 4. What is a number we report that you do not fully believe? 5. When did you last cut a corner, and did anyone notice? 6. What would you refuse to do here, even if told to? 7. Who would you go to if you saw something wrong, and would you? 8. What do we reward that we say we do not? 9. What is a promise this company made to you that it has not kept? 10. Where do you feel the gap between what we say we value and how we behave? 11. What is one thing that would make you more honest in this room? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [16 everyday questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/everyday) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/everyday) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Everyday # 16 everyday questions For couples 1. What is your favourite ordinary moment in our week? 2. What is a song, film or place that makes you think of us? 3. What is the best meal we have ever had together? 4. What would your ideal lazy Sunday with me look like? 5. Which of my habits do you find secretly endearing? 6. What is something I am better at than I give myself credit for? 7. How do you most like to spend an evening together? Options: Cooking and eating · Out somewhere · A film on the sofa · Talking for hours 8. What is the loneliest part of an ordinary week for you? 9. What is something you do for me every week that you suspect goes unseen? 10. When we are in the same room but not together, what are you usually thinking about? 11. What was the best five minutes of your day today? 12. What is a smell that instantly puts you in a good mood? 13. Which of these would you rather have more of this week? Options: Sleep · Time outside · A proper conversation · Something new to eat · An evening with no plans 14. What is something small I bought or made that you still use? 15. What is your go-to comfort food, and does it beat mine? 16. What is a place in our town that feels like ours? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What does obedience look like at your kitchen sink? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 executive team questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/executive-team) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/executive-team) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Executive Team # 10 executive team questions For teams 1. What decision did we get right this year that we have not celebrated? 2. Which of these best describes our meetings? Options: Decisions get made · Updates get read out · The real decisions happen elsewhere · One voice dominates · Better than last year 3. What does each of us think the company's biggest problem is, and why have we not aligned? 4. Who on this team do you disagree with most, and have you told them properly? 5. What are you protecting in your own area that the company would be better off without? 6. What do people two levels down believe about this team, and are they right? 7. What is a message we send by what we pay attention to, that we would not send on purpose? 8. What would you do about the person on this team who is not working out, if it were only your call? 9. What are you tired of that you are supposed to be energised by? 10. What is your successor going to inherit that you should fix first? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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Who has been left out of this family, and how do you feel about your part in it? 10. What is something you want to say to the whole family that you have only said to one person? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 fairness questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/fairness) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/fairness) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Fairness # 8 fairness questions For couples 1. Which chore do you think I do badly on purpose? 2. Who carries the mental load in our house, and what would you hand over first? 3. What do you do for us that you have never been thanked for? 4. Which of these feels least fair right now? Options: Housework · Money · Time off · Emotional support · Family duties · It all feels fair 5. If we swapped jobs at home for a week, what would each of us learn? 6. What do you keep score of, even though you say you do not? 7. When have you felt taken for granted, and did I ever find out? 8. What is a thing you do more of because I am worse at it, and is that fine? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is one way you could serve your town this year that has nothing to do with church? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 faithfulness questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/faithfulness) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/faithfulness) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Faithfulness # 8 faithfulness questions For faith groups 1. What is a small daily thing that is starting to feel like a rut? 2. Which of these have you kept at the longest? Options: A friendship · A job · A church · A promise · A habit · A grudge 3. Who has been faithful to you when it cost them? 4. What have you stayed with that others would have left? 5. What promise are you struggling to keep? 6. What would faithfulness look like in the boring part of your life? 7. When has God been faithful in a way you only saw later? 8. What do you need to keep doing even though you do not feel it? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [7 family & faith questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/family-faith) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/family-faith) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Family & Faith # 7 family & faith questions For faith groups 1. Who in your family first showed you what faith looked like, and what did it look like? 2. What do you believe that the people who raised you would be surprised by? 3. How do you talk about faith at home, if at all? 4. Who in your family do you pray for most, and do they know? 5. Is there a rift in your family that faith has made harder rather than easier? 6. What do you want the next generation of your family to inherit from your faith, and what not? 7. What is a small tradition your family has that outsiders find odd? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What nickname do you secretly like, and which do you hate? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 favourites questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/favourites) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/favourites) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Favourites # 12 favourites questions For families and friends 1. What would your perfect ordinary day look like? 2. What is a film or book you would happily watch or read again right now? 3. What meal would you choose if you could only eat one thing for a month? 4. What is the best place you have ever been? 5. What small thing reliably improves your mood? 6. Big party or small gathering? Options: Big party · Small gathering · Depends on my mood 7. What is your ideal weekend? Options: Completely unplanned · One good outing · Packed with plans · At home doing nothing 8. Morning person or night owl? Options: Morning · Night · Neither, honestly 9. What is a food you loved as a child that you would not touch now? 10. What is your favourite way to waste an afternoon? 11. Which of these could you talk about for an hour without notes? Options: A sport · A TV show · A place · A person · My job, sadly 12. What is your favourite thing that this group does together? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 feedback questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/feedback) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/feedback) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Feedback # 9 feedback questions For teams 1. What is the most useful piece of feedback you have ever been given? 2. What feedback have you been meaning to give someone here? 3. How do you prefer to receive criticism - immediately, in writing, or in private? 4. What is something you are working on improving about yourself professionally? 5. What feedback did you receive here that you rejected at the time and now think was right? 6. What have you stopped saying in meetings, and when did that start? 7. What piece of feedback would you like on your work, and from whom? 8. How do you prefer to get difficult feedback? Options: Straight away in person · In writing first · With examples · From a peer not a manager · Rarely, and gently 9. What is the most useful feedback you ever received, anywhere? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 first dates questions for people dating](https://answersealed.com/questions/first-dates) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/first-dates) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / First Dates # 12 first dates questions For people dating 1. What is your worst first-date story, before this one? 2. Which of these is you on a first date? Options: Talking too much · Asking all the questions · Quietly assessing · Trying to be funny · Genuinely relaxed 3. What is the best way someone could impress you without trying? 4. What is a date you have always wanted to go on? 5. What did you notice about me first? 6. What did you almost not say on our first date? 7. What were you nervous about before we met? 8. What is one thing you would like to do together next that is not dinner? 9. What did you tell a friend about our first date? 10. Which of these did you feel after our last date? Options: Excited · Curious · Unsure · Relaxed · Already planning the next one 11. What is something you found charming that you have not mentioned? 12. What is a dating rule you have that you would defend? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 firsts questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/firsts) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/firsts) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Firsts # 8 firsts questions For couples 1. What was the best kiss? 2. Which of our firsts do you remember best? Options: First date · First kiss · First trip · First fight · First I love you · First home 3. What did you tell your friends after our first date? 4. What is a first we still have ahead of us? 5. What was your first impression of my family, honestly? 6. What was the first thing you noticed that told you I was not perfect? 7. What is the first thing you would want to do again from the beginning? 8. When did you first know you loved me, and what took you so long to say it? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 focus & energy questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/focus-energy) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/focus-energy) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Focus & Energy # 8 focus & energy questions For teams 1. What do you do in the last hour of the day that you should do in the first? 2. How many things are you working on right now, honestly? Options: One · Two or three · Five-ish · I have lost count · Whatever shouted last 3. What interrupts you most, and could we do anything about it? 4. What gives you energy at work, and what drains it, in one each? 5. What is the work you keep being pulled away from that actually matters? 6. When did you last take a proper break, and what did it change? 7. What would you drop tomorrow if you were allowed, and who would notice? 8. How close to burnt out are you, and would you tell us if you were? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 food & home questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/food-home) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/food-home) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Food & Home # 8 food & home questions For couples 1. What is your favourite meal I make, and what would you change about it? 2. Which of these is dinner, most nights? Options: Cooked properly · Cooked in a hurry · Ordered in · Whatever is there · Eaten separately 3. What is a meal from your childhood you would like me to learn? 4. What is one thing about our home that says something true about us? 5. Where in the house do you go to be alone? 6. What would you change about how we eat together? 7. What is the last thing we bought for the house that made you happy? 8. What is a meal that means something to us? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 food & table questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/food-table) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/food-table) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Food & Table # 8 food & table questions For families and friends 1. What is the first meal you learned to cook, and who taught you? 2. Which of these is the best family food argument? Options: How to make the roast · Whether it needs salt · Who gets the last one · Restaurant versus home · Whose recipe is right 3. What is a dish that tastes like this family? 4. What do you always bring, and would we notice if you stopped? 5. What recipe should be written down before it is lost? 6. What did you eat as a child that now seems mad? 7. What is a meal you would cook for this group if you had all day? 8. What table conversation from years ago do you still remember? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [7 forgiveness questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/forgiveness) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/forgiveness) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Forgiveness # 7 forgiveness questions For faith groups 1. Who did you find hard to forgive, and what finally helped? 2. What do you need to be forgiven for that you have not asked about? 3. Is there someone you say you have forgiven whom you still avoid? 4. What would it take for you to forgive yourself for the thing you keep coming back to? 5. How do you tell the difference between forgiving someone and letting them keep hurting you? 6. Which is harder for you, asking forgiveness or giving it, and why? Options: Asking for it · Giving it · Accepting it when it is offered · Believing God has 7. What was the last apology you owed and did not make? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 forgiving questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/forgiving) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/forgiving) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Forgiving # 8 forgiving questions For families and friends 1. What is a small thing you would like to be forgiven for? 2. Which of these do you find hardest to forgive? Options: Being lied to · Being left out · Being let down · Being talked about · Being forgotten 3. Who in this group has forgiven you, and did you deserve it? 4. What did you forgive that you would not have expected to? 5. What is something between two of us that needs forgiving, that everyone knows about? 6. How do you know you have really forgiven someone? 7. What would you want to be forgiven for before it is too late? 8. Who taught you how to forgive? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What did you learn about someone here by living through something with them? 10. Which friendship here do you protect most carefully? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [7 friends & social questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/friends-social) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/friends-social) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Friends & Social # 7 friends & social questions For couples 1. Which of my friends do you enjoy most, and which one do you tolerate for me? 2. After a party, do you want to talk about everyone, or go straight to bed? Options: Talk about everyone · Straight to bed · Silence then a debrief tomorrow · Depends who was there 3. Who do we not see enough of, and whose fault is that? 4. What friendship of yours do you wish I understood better? 5. Do you have enough friends of your own, separate from us? 6. Is there someone whose influence on you I am quietly wary of, and are you aware of it? 7. Who was the last person who made you laugh that was not me? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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Who would you want to be friends with, that you are not yet? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 friendship in faith questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/friendship-in-faith) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/friendship-in-faith) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Friendship in Faith # 10 friendship in faith questions For faith groups 1. Who has walked with you in faith the longest, and what have they seen? 2. Which of these do you need from a friend in faith? Options: Someone who asks the hard question · Someone who prays without being asked · Someone who laughs with me · Someone who has been there · Someone who stays 3. Who do you owe a hard conversation, in love? 4. Who in this group would you call at two in the morning, and does it go both ways? 5. What has a friend here said that you have never forgotten? 6. What do you hide from your closest believing friends that you would not hide from a stranger? 7. What is friendship for, if it is not just company? 8. When did someone here carry you, and did you let them? 9. What is one thing you could do this month for someone in this room? 10. What is a friendship you let go of that you regret? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is one thing you would like the person who writes the rota to know? 10. What keeps you here that a pay rise elsewhere would not beat? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 fun questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/fun) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/fun) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Fun # 8 fun questions For families and friends 1. What is the most fun we have had for the least money? 2. Which of these is fun for you? Options: Games · Dancing · Cooking together · Being outside · Doing nothing · Winding each other up 3. What is a game we should play again? 4. Who is the most fun when they let go, and what makes them let go? 5. When did we last have fun without planning it? 6. What do you find fun that the group tolerates? 7. What has stopped being fun that we still do? 8. What would you want to do for fun if nobody judged you? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 fun facts questions for people dating](https://answersealed.com/questions/fun-facts) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/fun-facts) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Fun Facts # 10 fun facts questions For people dating 1. What is something you would be embarrassed for me to see you do? 2. Which of these is your hidden talent? Options: Cooking · Singing badly with confidence · Directions · Remembering names · Parking · None, I am talentless and at peace 3. What is the strangest thing you have ever eaten? 4. What is a story about you that your friends always tell? 5. What is a thing you have never done that everyone else has? 6. What was your first job, and what did you spend the money on? 7. What is a weird rule you have for yourself? 8. What would you do with a free week and no obligations? 9. What is a place you have been that you would take me to? 10. What is one thing about you that is genuinely unusual? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What does a good life look like to you at seventy, and where am I in it? 11. What is a fear about our future that you keep to yourself so as not to worry me? 12. If one of us had to give up something big for the other's dream, how do you think we would decide? 13. What would you want me to do in the first year if you died before me? 14. What are you most afraid our relationship could become? Options: Comfortable but distant · Two people managing a household · Resentful · Repeating my parents · I am not afraid of that 15. What is one thing you would want the youngest person here to know that nobody told you? 16. What do you want to be remembered for by the people in this group, specifically? 17. What is a place you want us to go before we are too old to enjoy it? 18. What is a skill you want us to learn together, even badly? 19. In one year, what would you like to be true about our weekends? 20. What do you want our home to feel like to a guest, in three words? 21. What is one thing you want to do together before the year is out? 22. Where do you see this group in ten years, honestly? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 generations questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/generations) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/generations) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Generations # 8 generations questions For families and friends 1. What do you do that your parents did, that you swore you would not? 2. Which of these do you think the generation after us will get right? Options: Work · Rest · Talking about feelings · Money · The planet · None of it, bless them 3. What did the generation before us get right that we have lost? 4. What do you not understand about the youngest people here, and have you asked? 5. What do you not understand about the oldest people here, and have you asked? 6. What is a family pattern you can see across three generations? 7. What do you want to hand down that is not money or things? 8. What are you the first in your family to do? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What do you give to be thanked, and what do you give in secret? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 getting married questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/getting-married) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/getting-married) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Getting Married # 9 getting married questions For couples 1. What is your dream for the wedding that you have not said because of the cost? 2. Which of these is the point of the day, for you? Options: The vows · The party · The family together · The photos · Being married by the end of it 3. Who do you dread at the wedding, and how do we handle them? 4. What do you want our vows to promise that the standard ones do not? 5. What are you afraid marriage will change? 6. What does your family expect from this wedding that you do not want? 7. What do you want our marriage to have that your parents' did not? 8. What is one thing we should agree before the wedding that couples usually leave until after? 9. What is the last thing you will say to me before the ceremony, if you get the chance? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is a thing you are stubborn about? 11. What was the last thing that made you laugh out loud? 12. What is something you have changed your mind about in the last few years? 13. What do people usually get wrong about you at first? 14. What is a habit you are trying to build, and how is it going? 15. What do you need after a hard day? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 gifts & generosity questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/gifts-generosity) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/gifts-generosity) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Gifts & Generosity # 8 gifts & generosity questions 1. What is the best gift you ever received, and what made it the best? 2. What is a gift you gave that you were proud of? 3. Which of these do you find hardest to give? Options: Money · Time · Praise · Forgiveness · The last word 4. Who gave you something they could not afford, and what was it? 5. What do you give easily that other people find hard? 6. What is the most generous thing you have witnessed? 7. Who deserves a gift from you that you have not got round to? 8. What do you want people to give you, that they never do? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is something ordinary in your life right now that you will miss one day? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 grace questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/grace) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/grace) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Grace # 8 grace questions For faith groups 1. What did you receive this week that you did not earn? 2. Who has shown you grace when you deserved the opposite? 3. Which of these is hardest for you to accept? Options: Being forgiven · Being helped · Being loved without doing anything · Being wrong and still welcome · Being told to rest 4. Where in your life do you still think you have to earn it? 5. Who do you find it hardest to extend grace to, and why them? 6. What would change about your week if you truly believed you were already accepted? 7. When did grace feel unfair, because someone else got it? 8. What does grace look like at a kitchen table? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 grandparents questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/grandparents) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/grandparents) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Grandparents # 10 grandparents questions For families and friends 1. What is your favourite thing your grandchild, or grandparent, says? 2. What was the world like when you were my age, in one story? 3. Which of these do you want more of together? Options: Stories · Cooking · Walks · Games · Just sitting 4. What did your own grandparents teach you that you want to pass on? 5. What do you worry about for the youngest of us that you did not have to worry about? 6. What is something you never told your children that you would tell your grandchildren? 7. What do you want to be remembered for by the youngest person here? 8. What is a hard thing from your life that you think would help us to hear? 9. What do you wish you had asked your own grandparents? 10. What is the best thing about being the age you are now? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 gratitude questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/gratitude) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/gratitude) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Gratitude # 9 gratitude questions For faith groups 1. What are you grateful for this week that you might otherwise have overlooked? 2. Who has shown you unexpected kindness recently? 3. What has gone well that you have not yet given thanks for? 4. What is something small you are thankful for right now? 5. What are you grateful for that came out of the worst thing that happened to you? 6. Who shaped your faith most, and did you ever tell them? 7. What is something small you are thankful for that you nearly missed? 8. Who did God use this week to look after you? 9. What is a hard thing you are thankful for in hindsight? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [15 grief & loss questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/grief-loss) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/grief-loss) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Grief & Loss # 15 grief & loss questions For families and friends 1. What is a small thing that reminds you of the person we lost? 2. What is a story about them that still makes you laugh? 3. What did they always say that you catch yourself saying now? 4. Which of these is grief like for you at the moment? Options: Waves that come without warning · A dull background ache · Mostly fine until a date or a song · Numb · Strangely peaceful 5. What do you wish people would stop saying to you about it? 6. What would they think of how we are doing? 7. What is something of theirs you kept, and where is it? 8. What conversation did you not get to have with them? 9. What do you feel guilty about, that nobody has told you to stop feeling guilty about? 10. Who in this group grieves most differently from you, and does it ever bother you? 11. What has this loss changed about what you want from your own life? 12. What do you want us to do on their birthday, or the anniversary, this year? 13. What is something you have not cried about yet? 14. What did they teach you that you would like the youngest of us to know? 15. Who checked on you after, and who did not, and how do you feel about both? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 group decisions questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/group-decisions) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/group-decisions) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Group Decisions # 8 group decisions questions For families and friends 1. What is a decision this group needs to make that nobody wants to raise? 2. Which of these is how we usually decide things? Options: The loudest wins · The organiser decides · We vote · We avoid deciding · One person always gives in 3. On the decision in front of us, what do you want, before considering anyone else? 4. What would you be willing to give up so this works for everyone? 5. Who is not in the room whose view we should hear? 6. What is the version of this decision you could live with, even if it is not your first choice? 7. What are you afraid will happen if we decide this wrongly? 8. What do you need to hear from the others to accept a decision you did not want? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What would you tell your teenage self, and would they listen? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 growth questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/growth) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/growth) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Growth # 10 growth questions For couples 1. What are you trying to get better at this year, and how could I help without nagging? 2. What is a habit you want to break that you would rather I did not comment on? 3. What have you been reading, listening to or thinking about that has shifted something in you? 4. Which of us has changed more since we met, and in what direction? 5. What part of your character do you least want me to stop challenging? 6. What is a truth about yourself you only learned because of this relationship? 7. Where do you think we have grown lazy with each other? 8. What do you want to be able to say about yourself in five years that you cannot say now? 9. What is something you got better at this year that nobody noticed? 10. What are you reading, watching or listening to that you would recommend to me? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is a skill you have let rust because nobody asked for it? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 guidance questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/guidance) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/guidance) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Guidance # 8 guidance questions For faith groups 1. What do you believe about listening to God, and does it happen to you? 2. Which of these is how you usually decide big things? Options: Pray and wait · Ask wise people · Read and look for a sign · Go with my gut and pray after · Decide and hope 3. What is a decision you made that you would now say God was in? 4. What did you think was God's leading that turned out to be your own wanting? 5. What are you asking for guidance on right now, and what do you suspect the answer is? 6. Who has spoken truth to you at the right moment, and did you take it? 7. What door do you keep knocking on that may already be shut? 8. What is one small yes you could say this week? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 habits questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/habits) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/habits) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Habits # 9 habits questions For faith groups 1. What is one practice, prayer, reading or silence, that you kept up this week? 2. When in the day do you find it easiest to pray? Options: First thing · On the way somewhere · Last thing · When something goes wrong · I struggle to find a time 3. What helps you actually read scripture, rather than intend to? 4. What practice have you dropped that you miss? 5. What is a habit you would want this group to hold you to? 6. How do you rest in a way that is actually rest, and how often does it happen? 7. What do you do with your attention that you would be embarrassed to add up? 8. What discipline are you avoiding because you suspect it would change you? 9. What is a way you rested this week that felt like a gift? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is something you are wrong about on purpose, because it is more fun? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 habits together questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/habits-together) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/habits-together) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Habits Together # 8 habits together questions For families and friends 1. What is a habit you would like this group to help you build? 2. Which of these would you commit to with this group for a month? Options: A daily walk · Reading · No phones at dinner · Cooking once a week · Calling each other · Early nights 3. What habit did someone here inspire in you? 4. What is a habit of this group that is good for you, and one that is not? 5. What do you always do when we get together, whether or not it is good for you? 6. Who in this group keeps their word about habits, and who never does? 7. What habit would you like us to drop as a group? 8. What would you do every day if this group checked on you? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 hard conversations questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/hard-conversations) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/hard-conversations) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Hard Conversations # 8 hard conversations questions For couples 1. What is the hardest thing you have had to say to me? 2. Which of these makes a conversation hard for you? Options: Fear of hurting you · Fear of your reaction · Not having the words · Not wanting to make it real · Being tired 3. What conversation do you rehearse in your head and never have? 4. How do you want me to start a hard conversation with you? 5. What is a hard conversation we had that made us better? 6. What time and place makes hard things easier to say for you? 7. What do you need me to promise before you say the hard thing? 8. What is the hard thing, and can you say the first sentence of it now? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 hard things questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/hard-things) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/hard-things) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Hard Things # 8 hard things questions For families and friends 1. What is something hard you are carrying that this group could actually help with? 2. What was the hardest year of your life, and who got you through it? 3. How do you want people here to treat you when you are struggling? Options: Ask me directly · Distract me · Just show up · Give me space and check back · Feed me 4. What do you find hardest to ask this group for? 5. What is a fear you have about one of us that you have never voiced? 6. What grief are you still carrying that you think the group assumes is finished? 7. What is something you have never told this group because you decided they could not handle it? 8. If you were in real trouble tonight, who here would you call first, and why not the others? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 healing questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/healing) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/healing) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Healing # 8 healing questions For faith groups 1. What is a healing, big or small, you have seen with your own eyes? 2. Which of these do you most need healing in? Options: Body · Mind · A relationship · My past · My picture of God 3. What have you stopped asking to be healed of? 4. Who in your life needs healing that you have grown used to? 5. What has healed slowly in you, without you noticing until later? 6. What does it mean to you that some things are not healed? 7. What part does this group play in your healing, or could? 8. What is one wound you would be willing to name here, if asked kindly? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 hiring questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/hiring) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/hiring) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Hiring # 8 hiring questions For teams 1. What is the best interview question you have been asked, ever? 2. Which of these do we actually hire for, whatever we say? Options: Skill · Fit with us · Confidence · Someone the manager likes · Whoever is available 3. Who was the best hire this team ever made, and what did we see early? 4. What is a hire we got wrong, and what did we ignore? 5. What would you tell a friend who was thinking of applying here, off the record? 6. What does our interview process test that has nothing to do with the job? 7. Who do we not hire, without ever deciding not to? 8. What did your own interview here tell you about us that turned out to be true? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 holidays together questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/holidays-together) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/holidays-together) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Holidays Together # 8 holidays together questions For families and friends 1. What is your favourite family holiday memory, and who ruined it best? 2. Which of these is your holiday personality? Options: The planner · The one who wanders off · The one who needs a nap · The one who finds the best food · The one who is always fine 3. What is the one thing that must happen for a trip to count as a good one? 4. What do you find hardest about travelling with this group? 5. Where should we go next, and what would you sacrifice to make it happen? 6. What is a holiday argument we have every single time? 7. What is something you would rather do alone on holiday, and would we let you? 8. What trip do you wish we had taken when we could? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 home questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/home) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/home) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Home # 8 home questions For couples 1. What is one thing I could do to make our home feel more like yours? 2. Which of these is home to you? Options: Where we live · Where I grew up · Wherever you are · A place I have not found yet · A feeling not a place 3. What is the room in our home you would fight to keep? 4. What does our home smell like to a visitor, and do you like that? 5. What would you change about our home if you did not have to ask me? 6. When does our home feel most like a home, and when least? 7. What part of your childhood home did you rebuild in ours? 8. Where would you want to live if I were not part of the decision? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 home & family questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/home-family) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/home-family) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Home & Family # 12 home & family questions For couples 1. Which household job do you quietly think you do better than me? 2. What is your ideal Sunday at home, hour by hour? 3. Which of these is our home most in need of? Options: A clear-out · Better light · Somewhere to sit outside · A room that is just for us · Fewer things that beep 4. What is a family tradition from your childhood you want to keep, and one you want to drop? 5. What do you find hardest about my family, and what do you think they find hardest about you? 6. How do you think we divide the invisible work, the remembering and planning, and is it fair? 7. If we have or raise children, what do you most want them to learn from watching us? 8. What kind of parent do you fear becoming? 9. What has changed about us since home became busier, that you would like to protect? 10. Where do you feel the pull between your family of origin and us, and which way do you lean? 11. Which chore would you pay to never do again? Options: Laundry · Dishes · Bins · Cleaning the bathroom · Admin and forms 12. What do you want more of at home: quiet, people, light, order, or mess? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 honest questions questions for people dating](https://answersealed.com/questions/honest-questions) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/honest-questions) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Honest Questions # 8 honest questions questions For people dating 1. What is a question you want to ask me but feel it is too early? 2. Which of these are you most curious about, about me? Options: Your past relationships · Your family · Your ambitions · Your beliefs · What you do all day · What you think of me 3. What do you assume about me that you have not checked? 4. What do you hope I am not? 5. What are you afraid I will find out? 6. What is something you would want to know before you let yourself fall for someone? 7. What have you not told me yet that you would want me to know eventually? 8. What is one honest thing you can say about how you feel about this, right now? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 honest talk questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/honest-talk) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/honest-talk) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Honest Talk # 8 honest talk questions For families and friends 1. What is a hard thing you had to tell someone in this group, and how did it go? 2. Which of these do we avoid talking about? Options: Money · Health · The past · Politics · How we actually feel · Nothing, we say it all 3. What do you say about this group to people outside it? 4. What do you wish you could say here without it becoming a thing? 5. When did honesty in this group go wrong, and what did we learn? 6. What truth about yourself would this group find hardest to hear? 7. What do you tell yourself about this group that you have never checked? 8. What is one honest thing you can say to the group right now, kindly? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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How would you like me to tell you a hard truth, so it lands as love? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 honesty at work questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/honesty-at-work) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/honesty-at-work) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Honesty at Work # 8 honesty at work questions For teams 1. What is a moment of good luck this team had that we called skill? 2. Which of these do you exaggerate at work? Options: How busy I am · How confident I am · How much I know · How fine I am · Nothing, I under-sell 3. What do you not know that people assume you do? 4. What do you say in status updates that is not quite true? 5. When did you last admit you did not understand something in a meeting? 6. What would you say about the project if you were being fully honest? 7. What do you know that the team would benefit from hearing? 8. What would this team be like if everyone were as honest as they are in this app? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 hope questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/hope) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/hope) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Hope # 8 hope questions For faith groups 1. What is something you are hoping for this year that feels almost too much to say? 2. When did hope feel foolish, and were you right? 3. What do you hope for this group? 4. Which of these keeps hope alive for you? Options: Scripture · Other people's stories · My own history with God · Stubbornness · Honestly, not much lately 5. What have you stopped hoping for, and was that grief or wisdom? 6. What would you do this week if you were certain it would all be made right? 7. Who needs to hear hope from you this week, and what stops you? 8. What is the difference, for you, between hope and optimism? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is one thing you could do this month to make a stranger feel less like one? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 housemates questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/housemates) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/housemates) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Housemates # 12 housemates questions For families and friends 1. What is your rule about the last of the milk, and does anyone respect it? 2. What is a noise in this house that only you seem to hear? 3. Which of these is the real division of labour here? Options: Fair · One person does most of it · Rota that nobody follows · Chaos with occasional guilt · What labour 4. What is your favourite thing about living here that you would not admit to the landlord? 5. What do you need in the house to feel it is yours too? 6. What is a thing one of us does that you have been meaning to mention nicely? 7. When you want to be alone, how do you signal it, and do we notice? 8. What is a house tradition we should start before someone moves out? 9. What do you tell people about living with us? 10. What would make you leave, honestly? 11. What is the kindest thing a housemate has done for you here? 12. What do you think the house thinks of you? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is a way you have hurt someone before that you are working on? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [20 icebreakers questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/icebreakers) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/icebreakers) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Icebreakers # 20 icebreakers questions 1. What is the best thing you ate this week? 2. What is a small thing that made today better? 3. What did you want to be when you were seven? 4. Coffee, tea, or something stronger to start the day? Options: Coffee · Tea · Water, smugly · Something with sugar · Nothing until noon 5. What is the last thing you laughed at out loud? 6. If you could have any superpower for one day, what would you actually use it for? 7. What is a skill you have that would surprise this group? 8. Which of these is your ideal weather? Options: Hot and bright · Crisp and cold · Rain on the window · Storm · Grey and quiet 9. What song can you not help singing along to? 10. What is a word you love the sound of? 11. What is one thing on your desk or table right now that has a story? 12. Early bird, night owl, or permanently tired? Options: Early bird · Night owl · Permanently tired · Depends on the day 13. What is a place you have been that you would send everyone here to? 14. What is your most used emoji, honestly? 15. What is something you are looking forward to this month? 16. What was the last thing you fixed? 17. What is a smell that takes you straight back somewhere? 18. Which season are you most yourself in? Options: Spring · Summer · Autumn · Winter 19. What is a hill you will die on that does not matter at all? 20. What is the oldest thing you own and still use? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 ideas questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/ideas) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/ideas) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Ideas # 8 ideas questions For teams 1. What is the best idea you heard here this month, and whose was it? 2. Which of these happens to a good idea here? Options: It gets built · It gets a meeting · It gets a document · It gets forgotten · It gets built by someone else later 3. What idea have you been sitting on because it is not your area? 4. What is an idea we killed too early? 5. Who on this team has the ideas, and who makes them happen? 6. What is a small idea that would make the next month easier? 7. What idea would you pitch if you did not have to defend it? 8. What idea of yours got built and you never got credit? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 identity questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/identity) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/identity) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Identity # 8 identity questions 1. Who are you when nobody needs you? 2. Which of these do you lean on for who you are? Options: My work · My family · My faith · My friends · What I have survived · What I make 3. What label have people put on you that you have never shaken? 4. What is something true about you that would surprise the people who know you best? 5. When did you last feel like an impostor, and where? 6. What part of your identity did you choose, and what part was handed to you? 7. What would you keep if you lost everything you use to describe yourself? 8. Who do you become when you are tired, and do you like them? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What do you admire in my parents' marriage, and what do you never want us to copy? 10. What would you want to say to my family if I gave you permission? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 influence questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/influence) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/influence) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Influence # 8 influence questions For couples 1. What is a habit of yours I have adopted? 2. What have I changed about you that your old friends would notice? 3. Which of these have you picked up from me? Options: A phrase · A taste in food · A way of arguing · A habit · An opinion · A friend 4. What do I believe that you have quietly started to believe too? 5. What part of my influence on you do you not like? 6. What have you tried to change about me, and how is it going? 7. Who influences you more than I do, and should I worry? 8. What is the best thing I have brought into your life that is not me? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 inner life questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/inner-life) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/inner-life) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Inner Life # 8 inner life questions For couples 1. What do you think about when you are driving alone? 2. Which of these is your inner weather most days? Options: Calm · Busy · Anxious · Flat · Cheerful · Changeable 3. What is a thought you have often and never say? 4. What do you daydream about? 5. What do you worry about that would surprise me? 6. What do you feel that you do not have a word for? 7. What memory do you go back to when you need comfort? 8. How much of your inner life do I get, honestly, as a fraction? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What do you want me to know about your body this year that is different from last? 10. What did you learn about intimacy from how your parents were with each other? 11. What would you want me to do if I noticed you pulling away? 12. What is something we tried once and never talked about again? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 jealousy & trust questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/jealousy-trust) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/jealousy-trust) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Jealousy & Trust # 8 jealousy & trust questions For couples 1. What do you do when you are jealous, and would I notice? 2. Which of these is closest to how you feel about my friendships with other people? Options: Completely fine · Fine, with one exception · Fine, but I notice · It bothers me and I hide it · We have talked about it 3. What would you want me to do if someone flirted with me? 4. When did you last doubt me, and what settled it? 5. What do you need to trust me fully that you do not have? 6. What broke your trust before me that I am still paying for? 7. What do you trust me with more than anyone? 8. Is there anything you check up on that you would be embarrassed to admit? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 keeping questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/keeping) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/keeping) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Keeping # 8 keeping questions For families and friends 1. What is something about this group you would never change? 2. Which of these would you fight hardest to keep? Options: The regular meet-up · The jokes · The honesty · The food · The people who make the effort 3. What have we kept going that we should be proud of? 4. What are we in danger of losing without noticing? 5. Who keeps this group going, and what would happen if they stopped? 6. What would you take on to keep this going? 7. What do you want us to still be doing in twenty years? 8. What is the one thing that, if we lost it, would mean the group had ended? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 kindness questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/kindness) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/kindness) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Kindness # 8 kindness questions For families and friends 1. What is a small kindness you received from a stranger this month? 2. Who in this group is kindest in a way that goes unnoticed? 3. What is the kindest thing you have done that nobody knows about? 4. When were you unkind to someone here and never made it right? 5. What kind of kindness do you find hardest to accept? Options: Money · Help with a task · Compliments · Being looked after when ill · Forgiveness 6. Who taught you to be kind, and how? 7. What is a kindness you want to do this month that you have been putting off? 8. When did someone in this group show up for you without being asked? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 kindness between us questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/kindness-between-us) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/kindness-between-us) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Kindness Between Us # 8 kindness between us questions For couples 1. What is a way you were kind to me this week that I might not have noticed? 2. Which of these is the kindness you most need right now? Options: Patience · Help · Softness · Space · Being believed 3. What is the kindest thing I have ever done for you? 4. When was I unkind and did not know? 5. What kind of kindness do you find hardest to accept from me? 6. What would being kinder to yourself look like this week, and how could I help? 7. Who is kinder in our relationship, and is that fair on the other one? 8. What small kindness could we do for someone else together this week? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What do you want to be known for by these people? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 knowing god questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/knowing-god) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/knowing-god) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Knowing God # 10 knowing god questions For faith groups 1. What is a name of God, or a way of speaking of God, that means most to you? 2. When did God feel like a person to you, rather than an idea? 3. Which of these is God most like to you, in practice? Options: Father · Friend · Judge · Presence · Mystery · Someone I am still working out 4. What do you think God finds funny about you? 5. What do you assume God thinks of you on a bad day? 6. What has changed about the God you believe in since you were young? 7. What would you ask God if you were promised an answer? 8. Where do you find it hardest to believe God is good? 9. What do you think God wants from you this week, in one plain sentence? 10. What did you see this week that looked like God at work? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 later years questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/later-years) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/later-years) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Later Years # 8 later years questions For couples 1. What do you want our days to look like when neither of us works? 2. Which of these worries you most about getting older? Options: Money · Health · Being a burden · Losing you · Being bored · None of it, honestly 3. What do you want to make sure we do while we both still can? 4. What do you want me to know about how you want to be cared for? 5. What do you hope our grandchildren, if any, say about us? 6. What did our parents do in old age that you want to avoid? 7. What is something you want to say to me before either of us forgets things? 8. What has got better about us with age? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 laughing together questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/laughing-together) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/laughing-together) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Laughing Together # 8 laughing together questions For couples 1. What is the funniest thing that has happened to us in public? 2. Which of these makes you laugh at me most? Options: Your face when you are wrong · Your dancing · Your sleep talk · Your arguments with machines · Your attempts at accents 3. What do we find funny that nobody else does? 4. When did I make you laugh when you were trying to be angry? 5. What is a running joke of ours, and where did it start? 6. When did we last laugh together properly, and why not more? 7. What do you laugh at that hurts me a little, and do you know? 8. What would make us laugh more this month? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 laughter questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/laughter) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/laughter) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Laughter # 8 laughter questions For families and friends 1. What is the most you have ever laughed, and who was there? 2. Which of us has the most contagious laugh? 3. What is a joke that only this group understands? 4. What is the worst thing you have laughed at when you should not have? 5. Which of these makes you laugh most? Options: Someone falling over · A perfectly timed comment · Old stories retold badly · Children being blunt · My own jokes 6. What is a habit of someone here that is unintentionally hilarious? 7. What do you find funny that nobody else here does? 8. What was the last thing that made you laugh alone? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 leaders questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/leaders) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/leaders) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Leaders # 12 leaders questions For faith groups 1. What are you carrying for this church that nobody sees? 2. Which of these do you most need from the other leaders? Options: Prayer · Honesty · Help with a decision · Cover so I can rest · To be checked on 3. What decision are we avoiding because of who it would upset? 4. Where has your own spiritual life gone thin while you have been serving? 5. Who in the congregation are we failing that we do not talk about? 6. What do you do with criticism, really? 7. What would you change here if you were not afraid of the response? 8. What part of leading gives you life, and what part is slowly taking it? 9. When did you last let someone lead badly because it was easier than stepping in? 10. What do the people you lead think you are like, and are they right? 11. What is a temptation particular to leading that you have felt this year? 12. Who leads you, and when did you last let them? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 leadership questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/leadership) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/leadership) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Leadership # 9 leadership questions For teams 1. What is the best decision a manager ever made for you? 2. What would you do differently if you ran this team? 3. What is a decision we made recently that you disagreed with? 4. How much direction do you actually want - more, less, or about the same? 5. How clear are you on what we are trying to achieve this quarter? Options: Completely clear · Mostly clear · Vague · No idea 6. What is a decision you have been avoiding because making it would make someone here unhappy? 7. What would you do in your first month if you were made responsible for this team tomorrow? 8. What is the best decision a leader here made this year? 9. What do you wish you understood better about how decisions get made here? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 learning questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/learning) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/learning) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Learning # 8 learning questions For teams 1. What is something you learned this month that you did not need for your job? 2. Who on this team would you like to shadow for a day? 3. Which of these is how you actually learn? Options: Doing it badly first · Watching someone · Reading · Being taught · Teaching someone else 4. What skill on this team is about to become important that nobody is learning? 5. What did you fail at this year that taught you the most? 6. What do you know that you have never been asked to teach? 7. What would you learn with a paid week off to study, and would you actually use it? 8. What have you stopped being curious about at work, and when? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 leaving well questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/leaving-well) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/leaving-well) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Leaving Well # 10 leaving well questions For teams 1. What would you want to be remembered for on this team? 2. What is the one thing nobody else here knows how to do that you should hand over? 3. What did this job give you that you did not expect? 4. What do you wish you had said earlier, that it is now safe to say? 5. What should the person who replaces you be told on day one? 6. Which of these is the real reason people leave here? Options: Pay · A manager · Boredom · Burnout · A better offer · Nothing to grow into 7. What did you nearly leave over, before, and what kept you? 8. What will you miss, honestly, and what will you not? 9. Who here would you hire again, and who would you want to work for? 10. What advice would you give this team that you could only give on your way out? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 life & interests questions for people dating](https://answersealed.com/questions/life-interests) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/life-interests) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Life & Interests # 10 life & interests questions For people dating 1. What is a hobby you would like to share with someone? 2. Which of these could you talk about for an hour? Options: A sport · A show · A place · A subject I studied · My work · Food 3. What are you reading, watching or listening to right now? 4. What did you love as a child that you still love? 5. What is a skill you want to learn this year? 6. What do you do that you would never put on a dating profile? 7. What is a part of your life you are proudest of? 8. What is your relationship with your work: love, like, tolerate, or escape? 9. What is something you find beautiful that most people walk past? 10. What do you spend money on that other people think is silly? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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How can I tell when you want advice and when you want to be heard? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 little tells questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/little-tells) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/little-tells) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Little Tells # 8 little tells questions 1. What do you do with your hands when you are nervous? 2. Which of these gives you away? Options: My face · My voice · Going quiet · Talking too much · Tidying · Nothing, allegedly 3. What do the people closest to you notice before you say anything? 4. What is a tell of someone here that you have learned to read? 5. What do you say when you mean the opposite? 6. What does your tone do when you are tired, and do you know? 7. What do you do when you are lying, and would you admit it? 8. What sign should we watch for that means you need help? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [16 long distance questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/long-distance) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/long-distance) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Long Distance # 16 long distance questions For couples 1. What time of day do you miss me most? 2. What is the first thing you want to do when we are next in the same place? 3. Which of these keeps you feeling close when we are apart? Options: A call every day · Voice notes · Photos of ordinary things · A shared show · Counting down 4. What is something that happened today that you would have told me if I were there? 5. What is a small thing of mine you keep near you? 6. What do you find hardest about the distance that you do not say so as not to make it worse? 7. What do you worry the distance is doing to us? 8. When we are apart, what do you assume I am doing, and are you right? 9. What is something you have started doing alone that you want to keep when we live together? 10. How do you want our calls to be different? 11. What is the plan for ending the distance, in your head, and does it match mine? 12. What has the distance shown you about yourself? 13. What do you look forward to about ordinary life together that other couples take for granted? 14. What is a thing you did apart that you wish we had done together? 15. When did you last feel jealous, and what did you do with it? 16. What is a rule we have about the distance that you would like to change? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [18 long haul questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/long-haul) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/long-haul) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Long Haul # 18 long haul questions For couples 1. What do you know now about marriage that you would tell us on our wedding day? 2. What is a habit of ours that has quietly kept us together? 3. Which year of ours would you least want to repeat, and what got us through it? 4. What has stayed exactly the same about you since we met? 5. What is a thing we used to fight about that we simply stopped fighting about? 6. What do you know about me that nobody else alive knows? 7. What do you assume I already know that I have never actually been told? 8. What have you stopped expecting from me, and was that wise or sad? 9. What do you want the next ten years to have that the last ten did not? 10. What are you afraid of about growing old with me, and what are you looking forward to? 11. What did we get right that our friends did not? 12. Which of these describes us most days? Options: Best friends · A good team · Comfortable · Roommates lately · Still surprising each other 13. What is a version of me from years ago that you miss, and one you are glad is gone? 14. What conversation have we been putting off for years? 15. What would you want to say to me if you knew it was our last ordinary evening? 16. What tradition of ours will you keep if I go first? 17. What is something we have never done that it is not too late for? 18. What is the last thing I did that reminded you why you chose me? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 looking after each other questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/looking-after-each-other) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/looking-after-each-other) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Looking After Each Other # 8 looking after each other questions For couples 1. What is something about your body or health you have been meaning to get checked? 2. Which of these would you like me to nag you about, kindly? Options: Sleep · Exercise · The doctor · Drinking · Screens · Nothing, please 3. What do I do when you are ill that you love, and what do I do that you hate? 4. When did you last look after yourself properly? 5. What would you want me to notice earlier next time you are not okay? 6. What is a way you look after me that you would like me to see? 7. What do you need from me on the day you get bad news? 8. What habit of mine do you worry about, and have you said so? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What would it mean for this group to look after each other better? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 love languages questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/love-languages) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/love-languages) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Love Languages # 8 love languages questions For couples 1. What is a way I show love that you had to learn to read? 2. Which of these do you give most naturally? Options: Words · Time · Touch · Gifts · Doing things 3. What is a way you show love that I might be missing entirely? 4. What did love look like in your house growing up, and do you copy it? 5. When did you feel most loved by me, this month? 6. What do you do to feel loved when I am not around? 7. What kind of love do you find hardest to receive? 8. What is one thing you would like me to do every day for a week, as an experiment? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 making questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/making) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/making) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Making # 8 making questions For families and friends 1. What is the last thing you made with your hands? 2. Which of these would you make if you had the time? Options: Furniture · A garden · A book · Music · A meal from scratch · A business 3. What did someone in this family make that you still have? 4. What are you bad at making that you keep making anyway? 5. What would you like to build or make together as a group? 6. What did you make as a child that a grown-up kept? 7. Who taught you to make something, and did you thank them? 8. What do you make that you never show anyone? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What do you protect your team from that they do not know about? 10. Where are you managing up more than managing down, and why? 11. What is a thing you believe about your team that you have never checked with them? 12. What part of your own performance would you rate lower than your manager does? 13. What would you do differently if you were not measured on the next quarter? 14. What is a small thing you could do this week that would change how your team feels? 15. Who do you talk to when managing is lonely? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 marriage & faith questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/marriage-faith) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/marriage-faith) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Marriage & Faith # 10 marriage & faith questions For faith groups 1. What do you pray for your marriage or partnership that your partner does not know? 2. How does faith show up between you and your partner on an ordinary evening? 3. Which of these is true of prayer with your partner? Options: We pray together most days · Sometimes · Only in a crisis · We have never managed it · I pray for them alone 4. What has your partner taught you about God without meaning to? 5. Where do you and your partner differ on faith, and how do you handle it? 6. What do single people in this group see that married people miss, and the other way round? 7. What is the hardest teaching about marriage for you to live, not just believe? 8. If you are single, what do you wish this community understood about it? 9. Who has modelled a faithful marriage for you, and what did it look like up close? 10. What do you think God wants for your marriage that you have been avoiding? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 meaning & boredom questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/meaning-boredom) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/meaning-boredom) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Meaning & Boredom # 8 meaning & boredom questions For teams 1. What do you do when you are bored at work? 2. Which of these is true of your week? Options: Mostly meaningful · Pockets of meaning · Mostly admin · Mostly waiting · I have stopped asking 3. What part of the job bores you that you are supposed to enjoy? 4. When did you last lose track of time at work, in a good way? 5. What is work you would do for free, and do we let you do any of it? 6. What has become routine that used to matter? 7. What would make the boring parts bearable? 8. Are you bored, tired, or done, and would you tell us which? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [11 memories questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/memories) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/memories) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Memories # 11 memories questions For families and friends 1. What is a memory of us you think about often? 2. What is the funniest thing that has ever happened to this group? 3. Which holiday or trip would you do again exactly as it was? 4. What is something we used to do that we should start doing again? 5. Which family story do you think we tell wrongly, and what actually happened? 6. Which memory of us do you return to when things are bad? 7. When did you last feel truly understood by someone here, and what did they do? 8. What is your earliest memory of one of us? 9. What is a trip or day out we still talk about, and what made it? 10. Which of these do you miss most from when we were younger? Options: The time · The energy · The people who have gone · The plans · Nothing, now is better 11. What is a moment you were proud of one of us? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 memory lane questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/memory-lane) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/memory-lane) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Memory Lane # 8 memory lane questions For couples 1. What is a memory of us you would put in a time capsule? 2. Which of these years of ours would you relive? Options: The first · The hardest · The one with the big change · The quiet one · This one 3. What is a photo of us you never took but wish you had? 4. What is a thing we said we would never forget, that we forgot? 5. What do you remember about a day I have completely forgotten? 6. What memory of us do you keep for the bad days? 7. What memory would you rather we both let go of? 8. What is a memory we tell differently, and whose version is kinder? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 mission questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/mission) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/mission) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Mission # 9 mission questions For faith groups 1. Who did you meet this week who did not know what you believe? 2. What is your story of coming to faith, in the version you would tell a stranger? 3. Which of these describes how you feel about sharing faith? Options: Natural · Willing but clumsy · Terrified · Tired of being told to · I let my life do it 4. What do you think people outside see when they look at this church? 5. Where in your week are you most likely to be asked about what you believe? 6. Who do you pray will come to faith, and what would you do if they asked you tomorrow? 7. What has put you off sharing faith, and was it fair? 8. What need in our town could this group actually meet, if it decided to? 9. What would you do for this community if you were not worried about looking like a do-gooder? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 mistakes questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/mistakes) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/mistakes) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Mistakes # 8 mistakes questions For teams 1. What is a mistake this team made that turned into something good? 2. Which of these is what happens after a mistake here? Options: We fix it and learn · We fix it and forget · Someone gets blamed · It gets hidden · Depends who made it 3. What is the last mistake you owned in public, and how did it go? 4. What mistake do we keep making with a different name each time? 5. What would you need to admit a mistake the same day, rather than when it is found? 6. Who on this team is best at being wrong, and what can we learn? 7. What mistake are you afraid to make because of how this place would react? 8. What mistake of someone else's did you quietly fix, and did they ever know? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 money & faith questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/money-faith) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/money-faith) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Money & Faith # 8 money & faith questions For faith groups 1. Which of these does the Bible say about money that you find hardest? Options: Giving the first part · Not worrying about tomorrow · Contentment · Generosity to strangers · That it can be a master 2. How do you decide what to give, and does it cost you anything? 3. What did you learn about money and God from the household you grew up in? 4. Where do you worry about money in a way you would not admit is a lack of trust? 5. What do you own that owns a bit of you? 6. What would generosity look like this month that is actually inconvenient? 7. What is something you bought this year that you have quietly regretted? 8. What do you want your children, or the young people here, to see you do with money? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 money & values questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/money-values) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/money-values) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Money & Values # 12 money & values questions For couples 1. What does money mean to you - security, freedom, status, or something else? 2. What is a purchase you regret and have never admitted to? 3. If we had to cut our spending in half, what would you protect first? 4. What do you believe about money that you learned from watching your family, and does it help us? 5. What is a purchase you hid, softened, or delayed telling me about? 6. Whose approval do you still want, and how does it shape what we do? 7. What would you do with a year off and no money worries, and would you want me there the whole time? 8. Which of these would you spend a windfall on first? Options: Paying something off · A trip · The house · Saving it · Giving some away 9. What is a thing you happily overpay for, and a thing you refuse to? 10. What did money feel like in your house growing up: tight, easy, unspoken? 11. What would you want us to do with more money that we do not do now? 12. What is a cause or value you would want us to give to, even when it is inconvenient? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What would you do if you inherited more than you expected? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 moods questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/moods) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/moods) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Moods # 8 moods questions For couples 1. Which of these is our house on a bad day? Options: Silent · Snappy · Everyone in a different room · Loud then fine · Fine on the surface 2. How do you want me to respond when you are in a low mood: fix, listen, leave, or feed? 3. What lifts your mood fastest that I can do? 4. What is a mood of mine you have learned to wait out? 5. When my mood drops, what do you assume is the cause, and how often are you right? 6. What do you do with a bad day that I never see? 7. What do you need me to understand about your dark days that I keep missing? 8. Is there something about your mental health you have been managing alone? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [5 morning questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/morning) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/morning) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Morning # 5 morning questions For faith groups 1. What is one thing you are thankful for today, before anything else? 2. What is the thing you are dreading today, and what would help? 3. Which of these will you need most today? Options: Patience · Courage · Energy · Kindness · A sense of humour 4. Who will you see today who might need a word from you? 5. What do you want to be true of today by tonight? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 mornings & nights questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/mornings-nights) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/mornings-nights) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Mornings & Nights # 8 mornings & nights questions For couples 1. What is your favourite way to be woken up? 2. Which of these is you at 7am? Options: Cheerful and annoying · Silent until coffee · Already on the phone · Asleep · Making a list 3. What is the last thing you think about before you fall asleep, most nights? 4. What would make our mornings less of a scramble? 5. What do you wish we did in the last half hour before sleep? 6. When you cannot sleep, what is usually on your mind, and do you ever wake me? 7. What is a night-time habit of mine you have never mentioned? 8. What is the best morning we ever had? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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If you had a year left and knew it, what would you stop doing tomorrow? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 music questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/music) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/music) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Music # 8 music questions 1. What is a song you know every word of? 2. Which of these is your music? Options: Loud and old · Quiet and new · Whatever is on · Podcasts, I confess · Silence 3. What song reminds you of someone here? 4. What did you listen to at sixteen, and does it hold up? 5. What song do you play when you need to cry? 6. What music did your parents play, and what did it do to you? 7. What song would you want everyone here to hear once? 8. What lyric have you lived by without meaning to? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 names questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/names) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/names) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Names # 8 names questions 1. What is a name you love? 2. Which of these is true about your name? Options: I love it · I have grown into it · I go by something else · I was named after someone · I would change it 3. What does your name mean, and do you live up to it? 4. What nickname have you had that you would not tell a stranger? 5. Who do you know only by a nickname? 6. What would you name a boat, a dog, or a child, if you had to today? 7. What did people call you at school, and what did it do to you? 8. What do you want to be called by the people who love you? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [6 neighbours questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/neighbours) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/neighbours) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Neighbours # 6 neighbours questions For families and friends 1. What is a habit of a neighbour that you have grown fond of? 2. What is the most useful thing a neighbour has done for you? 3. Which of these is our street? Options: Everyone knows everyone · Waves and nothing more · Friendly in a crisis · Silent · One person holds it together 4. What would make this street feel more like a place you belong? 5. Who on this street might be lonelier than they look? 6. What is something you could do for this street this month that you have not? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [22 new parents questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/new-parents) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/new-parents) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / New Parents # 22 new parents questions For couples 1. What surprised you most about the first weeks with a baby? 2. What is one thing you are doing well as a parent that you would like me to say out loud? 3. What is a small ritual with our child that you already love? 4. Which of these do you need most this week? Options: Sleep · An hour alone · A meal you did not make · Adult conversation · To be told you are doing fine 5. What did your parents do that you want to copy, and what do you want to avoid? 6. What part of parenting do you find easier than you expected, and which harder? 7. What do you miss about our life before, and how much do you let yourself say so? 8. How do you think we are dividing the nights, honestly? 9. What advice have we been given that you quietly ignore? 10. What do you want our child to say about us at thirty? 11. When do you feel most like a team since the baby, and when least? 12. What is something you have not told me about how you are coping? 13. What fear about being a parent keeps you awake, apart from the baby? 14. What do you resent right now, even a little, and is it fair? 15. What has this changed about how you see me? 16. What do you need from me as a partner, not as a co-parent, that has slipped? 17. What kind of family do you want us to be, in a sentence we could say to our child? 18. Which of these describes our sleep situation? Options: Survivable · Grim but shared · Grim and uneven · Better than we admit · Do not ask 19. What is one thing you want to protect about us while the children are small? 20. When did you last feel proud of me as a parent, and did you say so? 21. What is the hardest hour of the day right now, and what would help? 22. What do you want to do together, just us, in the next month? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [15 new starter questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/new-starter) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/new-starter) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / New Starter # 15 new starter questions For teams 1. What is one thing about this team that surprised you in your first week? 2. What is a word or acronym here you have been nodding along to without knowing? 3. Which of these would help you most right now? Options: A map of who does what · Time with the person I replace · Fewer introductions and more work · A buddy · Someone to ask the dumb questions to 4. What did your last team do that you already miss? 5. What is one thing you are good at that this team does not know yet? 6. What is a habit from your old job you are trying to leave behind? 7. What have you noticed that we have stopped noticing? 8. Who has been most helpful so far, and how? 9. What are you worried about being judged on too early? 10. What would make you feel you have properly arrived here? 11. What is the unwritten rule you have worked out so far? 12. What did nobody tell you that you had to find out the hard way? 13. If you could ask one person here anything, who and what? 14. What is one thing you did in your first month you would do differently? 15. How do you feel about how your onboarding went, honestly? Options: Great · Fine · Chaotic but friendly · Lonely · Still waiting for it to start ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is one small thing that would make this work sustainable for you? 10. What did you learn from someone we serve that changed how you work? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [15 old friends questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/old-friends) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/old-friends) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Old Friends # 15 old friends questions For families and friends 1. How did we meet, in your version of the story? 2. What is the dumbest thing we ever did together, and would you do it again? 3. What did I say or do years ago that you still bring up? 4. Which of these is our friendship built on? Options: Shared history · Making each other laugh · Showing up in a crisis · Having nothing to prove · Habit, honestly 5. What is a phase of your life I was not around for that I should hear about? 6. How have I changed since we met, in a way you like, and in a way you do not? 7. What do you still assume about me from when we were younger that is probably out of date? 8. When did our friendship nearly not survive, and what saved it? 9. What do you not tell me any more that you used to? 10. What would you want me to do if you disappeared into a relationship, a job, or a bad patch? 11. What is something you did for me that I never properly acknowledged? 12. What do you want this friendship to look like at seventy? 13. What do you think I would say is your best quality, and are you right? 14. What is a habit of mine you have learned to work around? 15. Which one of us has the worse memory of the early days, and what do you think really happened? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 opinions questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/opinions) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/opinions) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Opinions # 8 opinions questions For families and friends 1. What is the last thing you argued about with a stranger, in your head or out loud? 2. Which of these do you have the strongest opinion about? Options: Food · Politics · Music · Manners · Parenting · Sport 3. What is an opinion you hold that would surprise this group? 4. What opinion have you changed because of someone here? 5. What is an opinion you keep quiet at family gatherings? 6. What do you think this group is wrong about? 7. What opinion of yours are you least sure of, but hold anyway? 8. When did you last say what you really thought here, and what happened? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 origins questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/origins) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/origins) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Origins # 8 origins questions For families and friends 1. What is the story of how this group started, as you remember it? 2. Which of these best describes how we came together? Options: Born into it · School · Work · A place · One person's doing · An accident 3. Who was there at the start who is not here now? 4. What did you think of this group when you first joined it? 5. What did this group used to be that it is not any more? 6. What has stayed the same since the start? 7. What would the first version of this group think of us now? 8. What is the origin of a thing we always do? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is one thing we did once that should have been the first of many? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 outdoors questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/outdoors) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/outdoors) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Outdoors # 8 outdoors questions For families and friends 1. What is your favourite place we have all been together? 2. Which of these is your kind of outside? Options: Beach · Hills · A garden · A city street · Anywhere with a dog · Inside, looking out 3. What is a walk we should do together this year? 4. What is a memory of being outside as a child that you can still feel? 5. Where do you go when you need to think? 6. What has nature taught you that people could not? 7. What is a tree, path or view that means something to this group? 8. What is the last time being outside changed your mood, and how? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [16 parents & grown children questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/parents-grown-children) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/parents-grown-children) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Parents & Grown Children # 16 parents & grown children questions For families and friends 1. What is a hobby you would love to share with me now that we are both adults? 2. What is something you never told me about your own childhood? 3. What is a rule from my childhood you would now admit was more about you than me? 4. What do you wish I asked you about more? 5. What did you worry about most when I was a teenager, and did it happen? 6. Which of these do you want more of from each other? Options: Visits · Calls · Honesty · Help · Being left to get on with it 7. What is something I do that you are quietly proud of? 8. What do you find hard about how our relationship has changed? 9. What did you need from me at a time I did not give it? 10. What do you want to say sorry for, and what do you want to be thanked for? 11. What do you want the last years to be like, and have we ever said it plainly? 12. What is one thing about your life I do not understand, that you would like me to? 13. What is a tradition you hope I carry on, and one you would not mind if I dropped? 14. What did you learn from your own parents that you decided to do the opposite of? 15. What do you admire about how I live that is different from how you lived? 16. What was the moment you realised I was an adult? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 parents of faith questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/parents-of-faith) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/parents-of-faith) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Parents of Faith # 10 parents of faith questions For faith groups 1. What do you pray for your children that you would never say in front of them? 2. Which of these is hardest about raising children in faith right now? Options: Their questions · Their friends · My own doubt · Making it real not routine · Time 3. What did you inherit from your parents' faith that you are passing on, and what are you not? 4. What do you do when your child asks something you cannot answer? 5. When did your child teach you something about God? 6. What do you fear most for your children's faith, and what do you fear they see in yours? 7. What do you want your children to remember about how faith looked at home? 8. If your child walked away from faith, what would you want them to know? 9. What is a habit of faith your family actually keeps, not just intends? 10. What do you find easier, praying with your children or in front of them? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is a rule you had growing up that seems absurd now? 12. What did you think being an adult would be like, and what is it actually like? 13. What is a photo of yourself you love, and what was happening? 14. Which of these best describes your teenage years? Options: Loud and social · Quiet and bookish · Sporty · Rebellious · Mostly waiting for them to end 15. What is the first thing you noticed about me, honestly? 16. What is a decision from your twenties that you would defend to anyone? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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Who in this group carries peace into a room, and what do they do? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 photos & keepsakes questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/photos-keepsakes) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/photos-keepsakes) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Photos & Keepsakes # 8 photos & keepsakes questions For families and friends 1. What is a photo of this group you love? 2. Which of these do you keep? Options: Photos · Letters · Tickets and scraps · Nothing, it is all in my head · Everything, to a fault 3. What is the oldest photo of us, and who has it? 4. What object would you save that belongs to this group? 5. What do you have of someone here that they do not know you kept? 6. What should we make sure gets written down or recorded before it is lost? 7. What photo do you wish existed of this group? 8. What would you want the next generation to find in our box of keepsakes? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 place questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/place) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/place) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Place # 9 place questions 1. Where do you feel most at home in the world? 2. What is a place you have never been that you miss anyway? 3. Which of these is your kind of holiday? Options: City and museums · Beach and a book · Mountains and boots · Somewhere with the family · Staying home with no plans 4. What is a place you loved that has changed beyond recognition? 5. Where would you go for a week alone, and what would you do? 6. What is the most beautiful ordinary place you know? 7. What does home mean to you now, compared with ten years ago? 8. Where were you happiest, and did you know it at the time? 9. What is a place you cannot go back to, and why? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What would you want us to do if we had to start over somewhere new? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 plans questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/plans) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/plans) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Plans # 8 plans questions 1. What is a plan you have for the next year that you have told nobody? 2. Which of these are you? Options: Five-year plan · This year, roughly · This week · What plan · Plans change so I do not 3. What plan of yours fell apart and turned out fine? 4. What are you planning that you should just do? 5. What would you plan if you knew it would work? 6. Whose plan are you living inside? 7. What plan did you abandon that you should revisit? 8. What do you want to be planning at this time next year? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 play questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/play) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/play) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Play # 12 play questions For couples 1. What is a silly thing I do that secretly delights you? 2. If we had to enter a talent show as a duo, what would our act be? 3. What is the best bad decision we have made together? 4. Which of us would survive longer in the wild, and why is it obviously you? 5. What song would play when I walk into a room, in your version of our film? 6. What is a game, sport or hobby you would love us to be terrible at together? 7. Which of these would you pick for us this weekend, no planning allowed? Options: A long drive with no destination · A board game and too much food · A day apart then dinner · Something neither of us has done · Doing nothing, properly 8. What do you find funny that I still do not get? 9. When did we last laugh until it hurt, and what set it off? 10. What is a bit of play we have lost since the early days that you would like back? 11. What is something you are secretly competitive about? 12. What was your favourite thing to play as a child, and would you still play it? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [11 prayer questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/prayer) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/prayer) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Prayer # 11 prayer questions For faith groups 1. What do you find hardest about prayer? 2. What have you been praying about that you have not told anyone? 3. When did you last feel your prayer was answered? 4. What would you like this group to pray for on your behalf? 5. Which do you find easiest? Options: Giving thanks · Asking for help · Praying for others · Sitting in silence 6. What is a prayer you have stopped praying, and why? 7. What do you say to God that you would be embarrassed for this group to hear? 8. When did you last feel God was silent, and what did you do with that? 9. What is one thing you are asking God for this week? 10. Who did you pray for today, without being asked? 11. What is a prayer that was answered in a way you did not expect? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 prayer requests questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/prayer-requests) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/prayer-requests) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Prayer Requests # 8 prayer requests questions For faith groups 1. What is one thing you would like this group to pray about for you, right now? 2. Which of these is your prayer life like lately? Options: Steady · In bursts · Only when needed · Silent · Someone else's prayers are carrying me 3. What is a prayer answered for you this year that you have not told the group? 4. Who outside this group do you want us to pray for, and why them? 5. What is a prayer you are embarrassed to ask for? 6. What do you want this group to pray you will become? 7. What is a prayer for this group itself that you carry? 8. What would you ask for if you believed the answer was yes? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What would you hear if you stopped talking in prayer? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 pride questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/pride) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/pride) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Pride # 8 pride questions 1. What is something you are proud of that is not an achievement? 2. Which of these are you proudest of? Options: Something I made · Someone I helped · Something I survived · Something I stopped · Who I have become 3. What did you do that nobody knows you are proud of? 4. What are you proud of about someone here? 5. When did pride get in your way? 6. What would you want to be proud of by next year? 7. What are you not proud of that you have made peace with? 8. What do you hope your family is proud of you for, and have they said? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 promises questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/promises) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/promises) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Promises # 8 promises questions 1. What is a promise you made to yourself this year? 2. Which of these promises do you keep best? Options: To family · To friends · To work · To myself · To strangers 3. What promise did someone keep to you that mattered? 4. What promise did you break that you have not admitted? 5. What promise are you glad you did not keep? 6. What would you promise the people here, if promising were safe? 7. What promise are you still waiting on? 8. What promise do you make too easily? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 purpose questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/purpose) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/purpose) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Purpose # 9 purpose questions For faith groups 1. What do you believe you were made to do? 2. What decision are you weighing that you would value wisdom on? 3. Where do you feel you are being asked to be patient? 4. What would change if you truly trusted the outcome was not yours to control? 5. Where would you like to grow most this year? Options: Knowing scripture better · Praying more honestly · Serving more · Being more present with people 6. What do you think God is asking of you right now that you are negotiating down? 7. If your faith cost you your reputation, what part of you would resist most? 8. What did you feel made for at twenty, and what do you feel made for now? 9. What is one small act of obedience you could take this week? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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Who here reminds you why you came? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 quarterly review questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/quarterly-review) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/quarterly-review) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Quarterly Review # 8 quarterly review questions For teams 1. What did you do this quarter that you would put on a slide? 2. What did you do this quarter that you would never put on a slide, but mattered? 3. Which of these is true of the last three months? Options: We did what we said · We did something else and it worked · We did something else and it did not · Nobody remembers what we said · Hard to tell 4. What did you learn about a teammate this quarter? 5. What was the moment this quarter you nearly gave up on something, and what happened? 6. What do you want to be different about the next ninety days, for you personally? 7. What did we measure that did not matter, and what mattered that we did not measure? 8. What are you carrying into next quarter that you should put down? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What could I do before you get home tomorrow? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [7 recognition questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/recognition) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/recognition) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Recognition # 7 recognition questions For teams 1. Who on this team did something this week that deserved more notice than it got? 2. What is a piece of work here you are quietly proud of? 3. How do you like to be recognised? Options: In front of the team · Privately from my manager · In writing · With more responsibility · With time off 4. What thankless job on this team does someone do that keeps everything running? 5. When were you last thanked at work, and did it land? 6. What do you do well here that the metrics cannot see? 7. Who deserves a thank-you from this team this week, and for what? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 recommendations questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/recommendations) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/recommendations) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Recommendations # 8 recommendations questions 1. What is a book you would give to everyone here? 2. Which of these do you trust for a recommendation? Options: A friend · A stranger's review · My own instinct · An expert · Whatever is popular 3. What is a place to eat that you would send this group to? 4. What is a habit you would recommend to everyone? 5. What did someone here recommend that you actually did? 6. What is something you would recommend against, from experience? 7. What advice would you give this group about the next year? 8. What do you recommend that you have never done yourself? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What do you envy about someone in this group, and what does it tell you about what you want? 11. What do you think this group would say about you when you are not in the room, and would it be fair? 12. Which of these do you find hardest to say to the people in this group? Options: I need help · I was wrong · I love you · I am not okay · No 13. What is something you are quietly working on that you would like us to ask about? 14. What has changed your mind in the last year? 15. What is a compliment you got once and still think about? 16. What is something you know about one of us that you think they would be surprised you noticed? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 remote teams questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/remote-teams) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/remote-teams) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Remote Teams # 12 remote teams questions For teams 1. What is your work-from-home setup like, honestly? Options: Proper desk and door · Kitchen table · Sofa · Wherever the laptop lands · A shared space that is not mine 2. What do you do between meetings that you would not do in an office? 3. What is one thing a video call gets wrong about you? 4. When did you last have an unplanned conversation with a colleague, and what came of it? 5. What do you miss about being in a room with people, and what do you not miss at all? 6. When you go quiet on a call, what is usually happening? 7. How do you know when a remote colleague is struggling, and are you sure? 8. What has working remotely let you hide? 9. How do you end your working day, and does it work? 10. What is one thing we should do in person that we keep trying to do online? 11. Who on this team have you never met in person, and what do you imagine they are like? 12. What is the loneliest part of remote work for you? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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When you replay our worst argument, what do you wish you had done differently, and what do you wish I had? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 reputation questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/reputation) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/reputation) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Reputation # 8 reputation questions 1. What is the best thing someone has said about you behind your back, that got back to you? 2. Which of these do you think people say about you? Options: Kind · Clever · Reliable · Difficult · Funny · Quiet 3. What do people get wrong about you at first? 4. What reputation did you have at school, and did you deserve it? 5. What do you do to manage how you are seen? 6. What would you want your reputation to be, and what is it actually? 7. Whose good opinion do you want most, and why theirs? 8. What have you done that you would not want in your obituary? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 rest & play questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/rest-play) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/rest-play) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Rest & Play # 8 rest & play questions 1. What did you do this week that was entirely for you? 2. Which of these is your real rest? Options: Sleep · A screen · A walk · Cooking · People · Nothing counts as rest any more 3. What do you play at, as an adult? 4. When did you last do something badly on purpose, for fun? 5. What are you too tired for that you used to love? 6. What do you feel when you rest: peace, guilt, boredom, or dread? 7. Who gave you permission to rest, and who never did? 8. What would a truly restful week look like, and what stops you having it? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What did we not talk about during this that we should have? 11. What are you tired of that this project made worse? 12. What is one measurable thing we will do differently next time? 13. What did we learn about how we make decisions under pressure? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 reunions questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/reunions) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/reunions) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Reunions # 10 reunions questions For families and friends 1. What has changed about you since we last all met? 2. What is a thing you remember about the last time, that nobody else will? 3. Which of these did you feel walking in today? Options: Excited · Nervous · Like no time had passed · Older · Relieved 4. Who did you most want to see today, and did you tell them? 5. What would the younger versions of us say about who we have become? 6. What is something you wanted to ask one of us for years and never did? 7. What do you regret about how we lost touch, if we did? 8. What do you want us to do differently before the next one? 9. Who is missing today that we should raise a glass to? 10. What did today make you want to change when you get home? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 risk questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/risk) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/risk) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Risk # 8 risk questions For couples 1. What is the last risk we took together? 2. Which of these is your appetite for risk? Options: Bring it on · Calculated · Cautious · Only with you · Only without you 3. What risk did we not take that you still think about? 4. What do you risk every day for us that I do not see? 5. What would you risk if I promised to catch you? 6. What risk of mine scares you most? 7. What is a safe choice we made that you now regret? 8. What would you want us to gamble on this year? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 rituals questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/rituals) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/rituals) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Rituals # 8 rituals questions For teams 1. What is a ritual this team has that you would keep no matter what? 2. Which of these should we do every week without fail? Options: A proper stand-up · A shared lunch · A demo · A retro · A no-meeting day 3. What is a ritual we do that has lost its meaning? 4. How should we celebrate the next win, properly? 5. How should we mark it when someone leaves? 6. What do we do at the end of a hard week that helps, and what do we pretend helps? 7. What tradition from an old team would you import here? 8. What is something we should start doing on a person's first day? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 roles questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/roles) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/roles) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Roles # 8 roles questions For teams 1. What is one thing you would like to be asked to do more of? 2. Which of these best describes your role, as it actually is? Options: What is on the job description · Something else that grew · Three jobs · Whatever is on fire · I am still finding out 3. What do you do that is not in anyone's plan but keeps things working? 4. What part of your role would you hand to someone else tomorrow? 5. Whose role on this team do you least understand? 6. What is a role this team needs that nobody holds? 7. What role do you play in the group that has nothing to do with your title? 8. What role were you hired for that you have quietly stopped doing? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 sabbath & rest questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/sabbath-rest) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/sabbath-rest) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Sabbath & Rest # 9 sabbath & rest questions For faith groups 1. What time of day is holy to you, whether or not you call it that? 2. What did you do last Sunday afternoon, and did it restore you? 3. Which of these is closest to your relationship with rest? Options: I keep a proper day · I rest when I collapse · Rest makes me guilty · I have forgotten how · I rest well and feel judged for it 4. What do you believe about productivity that your faith would contradict? 5. What would you have to trust God with in order to stop for a day? 6. Who in this group rests well, and what could you learn from them? 7. What is something you do for rest that is really avoidance? 8. What would you do with a genuinely free day this week? 9. What has been lost in your body or mind because you would not stop? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 sales questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/sales) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/sales) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Sales # 10 sales questions For teams 1. What is the best objection you heard this month, and how did you answer it? 2. Which of these is your honest state after a lost deal? Options: Fine, next · Replaying it for days · Blaming the product · Blaming myself · Relieved, honestly 3. What do customers say about us when they think we are not listening? 4. What do you promise in a pitch that the team struggles to deliver? 5. What is the deal you are proudest of, and what did it take? 6. What part of the target feels made up, and what would you set instead? 7. Who on this team do you learn most from on a call? 8. What do you do in the ten minutes after a bad call? 9. What would you change about how we hand customers to the next team? 10. What is the part of selling you would never admit you dislike? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 saying no questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/saying-no) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/saying-no) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Saying No # 8 saying no questions 1. What is the last thing you said no to, and how did it feel? 2. Which of these is hardest to say no to? Options: Family · A friend in need · Work · Free food · Myself 3. What do you say yes to that you should not? 4. Who do you find it impossible to refuse, and why? 5. What did a no cost you that you still think was right? 6. What would you like to say no to this month, out loud, here? 7. When did someone's no turn out to be a gift? 8. What have you never said no to, and what has that made you? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 screens questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/screens) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/screens) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Screens # 8 screens questions For couples 1. What is a thing your phone does that gets between us, in your view? 2. Which of these would you agree to for a week? Options: No phones at meals · No phones in bed · One screen-free evening · Phones in a drawer after nine · None, I would cheat 3. When do you most notice me on my phone instead of with you? 4. What do you look at on your phone that you would feel odd showing me? 5. What has a screen replaced between us that you would like back? 6. What is the last thing you sent someone about me? 7. What do you want to be true about our house and phones when the children are teenagers? 8. When you scroll at night, what are you usually avoiding? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 screens & stories questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/screens-stories) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/screens-stories) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Screens & Stories # 8 screens & stories questions For families and friends 1. What is the best thing you have watched together with someone here? 2. Which of these is your comfort watch? Options: A sitcom I have seen a hundred times · A big film · Sport · Cooking shows · Documentaries · Whatever is on 3. What is a show you would make this whole group watch? 4. What is a story or film that explains something about you? 5. What character do you secretly identify with? 6. What did you cry at that you would deny in public? 7. What do you watch to avoid feeling something? 8. What did a story once show you about someone in this group? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [11 scripture questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/scripture) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/scripture) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Scripture # 11 scripture questions For faith groups 1. Which passage of scripture has meant the most to you this year, and why? 2. Is there a passage you find genuinely difficult to accept? 3. What is a verse you return to when things are hard? 4. Which figure in scripture do you most identify with, and why? 5. Is there a passage you use to justify something you suspect is really about comfort? 6. What verse has meant something different to you at different points in your life? 7. Which teaching do you obey outwardly but have not settled inwardly? 8. Which story in scripture did you love as a child, and how do you read it now? 9. What passage do you turn to when you cannot sleep? 10. Which character in scripture do you see yourself in most, honestly? 11. What is a verse you have on a wall, a phone, or in your head, and why that one? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 seasons questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/seasons) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/seasons) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Seasons # 12 seasons questions For faith groups 1. What are you waiting for this Advent, in your actual life? 2. Which part of the Christmas story do you skip past too quickly? 3. What would you give up for Lent if you were honest about what has a hold on you? 4. What do you find hardest about Easter Saturday, the day between? 5. Which of these is Christmas like for you, really? Options: Joyful · Busy and holy in patches · Hard because of who is missing · Mostly for the children · Quiet and I like it that way 6. What is one thing you want to do differently this season so it is not just noise? 7. What has a past Lent taught you that stuck? 8. Where do you see resurrection in your life this year, if anywhere? 9. What are you mourning this season that the season expects you to be joyful about? 10. What is a tradition of this season that has become empty for you, and what would fill it? 11. Who do you want to invite into this season who would not expect to be asked? 12. What did Pentecost, or the idea of the Spirit, mean to you this year in practice? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 seasons of life questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/seasons-of-life) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/seasons-of-life) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Seasons of Life # 8 seasons of life questions For families and friends 1. What was the best summer of your life? 2. Which of these seasons of life are you in? Options: Building · Holding on · Letting go · Starting again · Resting · Not sure 3. What season of life did this group see you through? 4. What are you looking forward to about the next stage? 5. What are you not ready for that is coming anyway? 6. What did you not appreciate about a past season until it ended? 7. Who in this group is in a hard season, and what could we do? 8. What do you want from this group in the season you are in now? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 secrets questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/secrets) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/secrets) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Secrets # 8 secrets questions 1. Who do you trust with a secret, and why them? 2. Which of these do you keep to yourself most? Options: Money · Health · Feelings · The past · Opinions · Ambitions 3. What is a harmless secret you have kept for years? 4. What secret did you keep for someone that cost you? 5. What do you wish you had told someone before it was too late? 6. What is a secret about yourself you would be relieved to have out? 7. What do you assume people already know about you that they do not? 8. What is something you are proud of that you have never told anyone? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 self questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/self) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/self) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Self # 8 self questions For couples 1. What do you say to yourself when you look in the mirror? 2. What part of yourself do you like most, and does it show at home? 3. Which of these do you need to feel like yourself? Options: Time alone · Making something · Moving my body · Being with my people · Being useful 4. What did you give up to be with me, and would you again? 5. Who were you before us, and how much of that person do I get to meet? 6. What do you want to become that you have not told me because it might not fit us? 7. What is something you are good at that our life gives you no room for? 8. How do you want me to support who you are becoming, not who you were? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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Options: Practical help · Listening · Giving · Organising · Praying ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [16 siblings questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/siblings) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/siblings) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Siblings # 16 siblings questions For families and friends 1. What is the nickname you had for each other as children, and does it still work? 2. Who got away with more, and how? 3. What did you fight about most as children, and what do you fight about now? 4. Which of these best describes your role growing up? Options: The responsible one · The peacemaker · The wild one · The invisible one · The favourite, allegedly 5. What is a memory of us that only the two of us would remember? 6. What did our parents get right that you only appreciated later? 7. What do you think our parents got wrong, and did it land on us differently? 8. How did your view of me change when we became adults? 9. What do you envy about how I was treated? 10. What do I do that reminds you of our mother, or father, and is that good or bad? 11. What is a hurt from childhood between us that we have never actually talked about? 12. When our parents are gone, what do you hope happens between us? 13. What would you want me to know if you were struggling and could not say it? 14. What is the thing you are proudest of me for? 15. What is a decision about our parents' care or money that we should talk about before we have to? 16. What do you know about our family that I might not? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 simple pleasures questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/simple-pleasures) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/simple-pleasures) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Simple Pleasures # 8 simple pleasures questions For families and friends 1. What is your favourite thing to do with this group that costs nothing? 2. Which of these is a perfect evening? Options: A board game · A long dinner · A film everyone has seen · A walk · Doing nothing in the same room 3. What is a small ritual of yours that makes a day feel right? 4. What is the best cup of tea or coffee you have ever had, and where? 5. What do you look forward to every week? 6. What have you started appreciating that you used to take for granted? 7. What is a pleasure you deny yourself, and why? 8. What is the last thing that made you stop and just look? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 small group basics questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/small-group-basics) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/small-group-basics) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Small Group Basics # 10 small group basics questions For faith groups 1. What is one thing you hope this group becomes for you? 2. How did you end up here, in two sentences? 3. Which of these would make you keep coming? Options: Being known · Good teaching · Prayer that gets answered · Food and laughter · Being useful 4. What is one thing you are nervous about in a group like this? 5. What do you want us to do if you go quiet for a few weeks? 6. What is a rule you would like this group to keep? 7. What is something you are good at that this group could use? 8. What has a previous group got wrong that you do not want repeated? 9. How honest do you intend to be here, on a scale you would admit to? 10. What would it take for you to trust these people with something real? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 small things questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/small-things) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/small-things) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Small Things # 8 small things questions For couples 1. What is a small kindness of mine you noticed today? 2. What is your favourite ordinary moment of a normal day with me? 3. Which of these small things matters most to you? Options: A cup of tea made without asking · A hand on the back in passing · A text at lunchtime · The bins done · Being asked how it went 4. What is a sound in our home you would miss? 5. What is a small thing I stopped doing that you noticed? 6. What do you do for me that you think I do not notice, and are you right? 7. What would you like me to do for you tomorrow morning, precisely? 8. What is one small change that would make our evenings better this week? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 small wins questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/small-wins) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/small-wins) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Small Wins # 8 small wins questions For teams 1. What is the smallest thing that makes your day at work better? 2. Which of these is a good day? Options: A thing shipped · A problem solved · A good conversation · An empty inbox · Home on time 3. What did you finish this week that you had been dreading? 4. What is a win for someone else this week that made you glad? 5. What small improvement did you make that nobody noticed? 6. What is a win we should stop calling small? 7. What is the last time you felt good at your job? 8. What would you like celebrated that never is? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 space questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/space) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/space) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Space # 8 space questions For teams 1. What is your favourite thing about this office, or your home desk? 2. Which of these would you change about where we work? Options: Noise · Light · Somewhere quiet · Somewhere to eat together · Somewhere to lie down · The coffee 3. Where do you go when you need to be unreachable for an hour? 4. What does our workspace say about us to a visitor? 5. What do you need in a space to do your best thinking? 6. What is the best workspace you ever had, and what made it? 7. Where do the real conversations here happen? 8. What would you change about who sits near whom, if you could? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 startup questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/startup) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/startup) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Startup # 10 startup questions For teams 1. What did you believe about this company at the start that you no longer believe? 2. Which of these is the honest reason you are here? Options: The mission · The people · The equity · The learning · I have not thought about leaving yet 3. What is the thing we say to investors that makes you wince? 4. What would you do differently if you were the founder for a week? 5. How many hours did you really work last week, and how do you feel about it? 6. What are we not allowed to say about the runway, the product, or the plan? 7. What would you want to be true here at fifty people that is true at ten? 8. What is the customer we have that we should fire? 9. When did you last feel we were winning, and when losing? 10. What part of the culture would you be sad to lose as we grow? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 stewardship questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/stewardship) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/stewardship) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Stewardship # 8 stewardship questions For faith groups 1. What is something you are looking after that belongs to someone else? 2. Which of these do you find hardest to look after well? Options: My body · My money · My time · My relationships · The earth · My attention 3. What did you inherit, in any sense, and what are you doing with it? 4. What are you wasting that you would be ashamed to have measured? 5. What would you do differently with your time if you believed it was not yours? 6. What part of creation do you love, and what do you do about it? 7. What have you been given that you are afraid to use? 8. What would you want to hand back in better shape than you found it? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 strangers questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/strangers) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/strangers) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Strangers # 8 strangers questions 1. What is a thing you would do for a stranger without hesitation? 2. Which of these best describes you with strangers? Options: I talk to everyone · I wait to be spoken to · I am friendly and forget them · I avoid it · Depends on the day 3. What did a stranger once do for you that you still think about? 4. What do you assume about people before they speak, and are you usually right? 5. Who did you dismiss on sight and later come to love? 6. What would a stranger notice about you in the first minute? 7. When were you the stranger, and who welcomed you? 8. What do you owe to people you will never meet? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 strategy questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/strategy) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/strategy) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Strategy # 8 strategy questions For teams 1. What is a strength of this team that our competitors would envy? 2. If you had to explain what we do to a child, what would you say? 3. What are we betting on, whether we say so or not? 4. What would you stop the company doing if it were yours? 5. Which of these do you think we are? Options: Ahead and know it · Ahead and complacent · Behind and catching up · Behind and pretending · Somewhere nobody has checked 6. What do you think the plan actually is, in one sentence? 7. What is the risk everyone is quietly ignoring? 8. What would a new leader change in their first ninety days, and why has nobody? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 strengths & flaws questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/strengths-flaws) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/strengths-flaws) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Strengths & Flaws # 8 strengths & flaws questions 1. What is a strength of yours that is also your biggest problem? 2. Which of these do people praise you for that you find slightly annoying? Options: Being calm · Being organised · Being kind · Being clever · Being reliable · Being funny 3. What flaw of yours do you find funny, and which one do you not? 4. What do people get wrong about your best quality? 5. What is a flaw you have decided to keep? 6. What is the strength you are proudest of that nobody notices? 7. What flaw of yours has hurt someone this year? 8. What would the people closest to you say your flaw is, and are they right? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What is a weight you have been carrying alone that you could hand half of to me? 9. What do you think I am stressed about that I have not said? 10. What would a genuinely restful week look like, and could we actually do it? 11. What is something you want to learn to say no to, together? 12. What is the last thing that made you feel completely calm? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 study questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/study) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/study) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Study # 10 study questions For faith groups 1. What passage are we reading, and what stood out to you first? 2. What in the passage do you find difficult, and what do you find you agree with too easily? 3. Which character in this passage are you most like right now? 4. What does this passage ask of you this week, in one concrete step? 5. What would you say to someone who read this passage and got angry? 6. What do you think the writer wanted the first readers to feel? 7. Where does this passage contradict how you actually live? 8. What question does this passage leave you with that you would rather it had answered? 9. Which of these is your honest reaction to today's passage? Options: Comforted · Challenged · Confused · Bored, honestly · Moved 10. What do you want to remember from this passage in a month? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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Options: I pray more · I pray less · I get busy · I go quiet with everyone · I lean on this group ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 teachers questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/teachers) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/teachers) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Teachers # 8 teachers questions 1. Who taught you the most, and did they know they were teaching? 2. What is a lesson you learned from someone you did not like? 3. Which of these taught you the most? Options: A parent · A teacher · A boss · A failure · A stranger · A child 4. What did a teacher say to you that you still hear? 5. What have you taught someone that you are proud of? 6. Who learned something from you that you wish they had not? 7. What are you still trying to learn that you have failed at more than once? 8. What have you been a bad student of? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [3 team check-in questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/team-check-in) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/team-check-in) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Team Check-in # 3 team check-in questions For teams 1. What was the best part of your week at work? 2. What is one word for how the team feels this week? 3. Which of these would most improve your next week? Options: One fewer meeting · A clear decision on something · Help with a task · Someone noticing · Nothing, it is fine ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [6 team conflict questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/team-conflict) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/team-conflict) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Team Conflict # 6 team conflict questions For teams 1. What disagreement on this team has gone unresolved the longest? 2. How do you behave in a disagreement here, and how would you like to? 3. What do you do when you think a decision is wrong but it has already been made? Options: Say so once then commit · Keep pushing · Go along and quietly resent it · Work around it · Escalate 4. Who on this team do you find hardest to work with, and what would make it easier? 5. What tension on this team does everyone manage around instead of naming? 6. When did you last leave a meeting angry, and what did you do with it? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [15 team health questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/team-health) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/team-health) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Team Health # 15 team health questions For teams 1. What is something this team does well that we never stop to acknowledge? 2. What is the thing everyone privately thinks but nobody says in meetings? 3. What would you change about how we work if nobody could object? 4. When did you last feel genuinely proud of something we shipped? 5. What is slowing you down that you have stopped complaining about? 6. What do you need from this team that you are not getting? 7. How is your workload right now? Options: Comfortable · Busy but fine · Stretched · Underwater 8. Where do we most need to improve? Options: Communication · Prioritisation · Tooling and process · Decision making · Recognition 9. What do you pretend to be fine with at work because objecting would cost you something? 10. What do you tell people outside work about this team that you would not say inside it? 11. Which of these do you most need from this team in the next quarter? Options: Clearer priorities · Fewer meetings · More honest feedback · Recognition · Room to fail · Someone to cover for me 12. What is a small win from this week that nobody clapped for? 13. What is something a teammate did that made your job easier? 14. If this team were a band, who plays what? 15. What is one thing we should stop apologising for? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 team identity questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/team-identity) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/team-identity) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Team Identity # 8 team identity questions For teams 1. What is a strength of this team that we should say out loud more? 2. If this team had a motto, what would it be, honestly? 3. Which of these is our reputation in the company? Options: Reliable · Fast and messy · Slow and careful · Difficult · Invisible · The fun ones 4. What do new people notice about this team in their first week? 5. What do we do that no other team here could? 6. What do we pretend to be that we are not? 7. What would this team lose if you left, that you have never said? 8. Who is this team's memory, and what happens when they go? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What do I do that embarrasses you, and what do you do that embarrasses me? 10. When did you last feel proud of the other one, and did you say so? 11. What do you need from me in the next year that you have not asked for? 12. What would make it easier to talk to me about hard things? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 temptation questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/temptation) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/temptation) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Temptation # 8 temptation questions For faith groups 1. What do you find yourself wanting more of lately, and is it good for you? 2. Which of these pulls at you most? Options: Comfort · Approval · Control · Escape · Being right · Being seen 3. What do you tell yourself right before you do the thing you regret? 4. Who knows your weakest point, and do they ask about it? 5. What is a habit you would want this group to ask you about, gently, every month? 6. When did you last resist something, and what helped? 7. What is a small compromise that has become normal? 8. What would you want to be free of by this time next year? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What do you take for granted that someone else would give anything for? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [20 this or that questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/this-or-that) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/this-or-that) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / This or That # 20 this or that questions 1. Would you rather always know the time or always know the temperature? Options: Always know the time · Always know the temperature 2. Would you rather have a rewind button or a pause button for your life? Options: Rewind · Pause 3. Would you rather give up music or films for a year? Options: Give up music · Give up films 4. Would you rather be able to talk to animals or speak every language? Options: Talk to animals · Speak every language 5. Would you rather live somewhere always warm or always cold? Options: Always warm · Always cold 6. Would you rather be famous or be the best friend of someone famous? Options: Famous · Best friend of someone famous 7. Would you rather never queue again or never be stuck in traffic again? Options: Never queue · Never traffic 8. Would you rather have dinner with your great-grandparents or your great-grandchildren? Options: Great-grandparents · Great-grandchildren 9. Would you rather know how you die or when? Options: How · When · Neither, thanks 10. Would you rather be respected or liked, if you could only have one? Options: Respected · Liked 11. Would you rather relive your best day or erase your worst? Options: Relive the best · Erase the worst 12. Would you rather have more time or more money, at the amount you have now? Options: More time · More money 13. Would you rather be told a hard truth or a kind lie? Options: Hard truth · Kind lie · Depends who is telling it 14. Would you rather have one close friend or ten good ones? Options: One close friend · Ten good ones 15. Would you rather always say what you think or never have to? Options: Always say it · Never have to 16. Would you rather be the smartest person in the room or the funniest? Options: Smartest · Funniest 17. Would you rather lose all your photos or all your messages? Options: Photos · Messages 18. Would you rather start over in a new city or stay here forever? Options: Start over somewhere new · Stay here forever 19. Would you rather your life be a comedy or a drama? Options: Comedy · Drama 20. Would you rather be the one who leaves or the one who is left? Options: The one who leaves · The one who is left ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 time questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/time) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/time) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Time # 8 time questions 1. What do you spend time on that you know is a waste, and why does it win? 2. Which of these describes your relationship with time? Options: Always behind · Careful with it · Wasteful and at peace · Racing something · I do not think about it 3. What do you wish you had started ten years ago? 4. What is worth your time that you never give it to? 5. When does time move slowest for you, and fastest? 6. What would you do with an extra hour every day that nobody knew about? 7. What are you waiting for, honestly, and what is it costing you? 8. What do you want to have done by this time next year, that only you can do? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 today questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/today) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/today) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Today # 8 today questions 1. What is a small victory you had today? 2. Which of these best describes your energy right now? Options: Full · Enough · Running low · Empty · Borrowed from tomorrow 3. What is one thing you are avoiding today? 4. Who did you think about today that you did not expect to? 5. What would make the rest of today better? 6. What did you do today that future you will thank you for? 7. What did today ask of you that you did not have? 8. What do you want to remember about today? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 together time questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/together-time) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/together-time) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Together Time # 8 together time questions For couples 1. What is a game or sport you would like to play with me every week? 2. Which of these is the best kind of time together? Options: Side by side doing our own things · A shared project · Out somewhere · Talking for hours · In bed all morning 3. How much time together is enough for you, honestly? 4. What do you want to do together that we keep postponing? 5. When we are together, what do you want more of, and less of? 6. What is our best shared thing, the thing only we do? 7. When did you last feel we were wasting time we could have spent well? 8. What would you like a weekend to look like where neither of us is tired? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What standard of yours is slipping under the pace? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 traditions questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/traditions) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/traditions) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Traditions # 8 traditions questions For families and friends 1. What is a tradition in this group or family that you would fight to keep? 2. What is the best meal we have ever had together, and who cooked it? 3. Which holiday tradition of ours would you happily bin? Options: The big meal · The gift rules · The photo · The argument · None, I love all of it 4. What tradition would you like to start with us this year? 5. Who is the keeper of our traditions, and what happens when they are not around? 6. Which tradition means something different to you than it does to everyone else? 7. What is a tradition we lost without noticing? 8. What is one thing about how we gather that you would change if you could do it without a fuss? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [11 trust questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/trust) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/trust) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Trust # 11 trust questions For teams 1. What makes you trust a colleague? 2. What is the fastest way for someone to lose your trust at work? 3. When did someone here have your back? 4. What do you assume about how others see your work? 5. What is the mistake you made here that you have never fully owned in front of the team? 6. Whose work on this team do you privately undervalue, and what might you be missing? 7. What do you believe about how you are seen here that you have never checked? 8. What holds you back most from speaking up here? Options: It will not change anything · Fear of being wrong in public · Not wanting to hurt someone · Not my place · Nothing holds me back 9. What is one thing a teammate could rely on you for, no matter what? 10. Who on this team taught you something this year? 11. What would make it easier to admit a mistake here? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [11 turning points questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/turning-points) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/turning-points) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Turning Points # 11 turning points questions 1. What is the best mistake you ever made? 2. What is a door that closed that you are now glad about? 3. What is a decision you made in under a minute that changed your life? 4. Who changed the course of your life without knowing it? 5. Which of these was your biggest turning point? Options: A person · A move · A loss · A job · A book or idea · A close call 6. What is a moment you knew something had ended before anyone said so? 7. What is the bravest thing you have done that nobody clapped for? 8. What is a time you chose the harder road and were right to? 9. What would you tell yourself the night before the biggest change in your life? 10. What is a turning point that is coming, that you can already feel? 11. What did you learn the hard way this year? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 two careers questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/two-careers) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/two-careers) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Two Careers # 10 two careers questions For couples 1. What is your ambition right now, in one sentence? 2. Which of these best describes work in our relationship? Options: Two careers, equal weight · One leads, one supports · Whoever is busier wins · We take turns · It is a constant negotiation 3. What do you need from me in a big week at work? 4. When has my work cost you something you did not mention? 5. What would you want me to say if you were offered the job of your life in another city? 6. What do you think I do all day, and would you be surprised? 7. Whose career has bent more around the other's, and do we agree? 8. What would you do if one of us wanted to stop working? 9. What is a work story of mine you are tired of hearing? 10. What do you admire about how I work? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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Who carries the pressure so that others do not feel it? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 upwards questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/upwards) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/upwards) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Upwards # 8 upwards questions For teams 1. What is a question you would ask the CEO if it were anonymous? 2. Which of these does leadership not see? Options: How long things really take · Who is actually doing the work · Morale · The customer's day · How their decisions land 3. What decision from above made your job harder this year? 4. What would you want leadership to hear from this team, in one sentence? 5. What do you say about leadership privately that would be useful for them to hear? 6. When did leadership get something right that you did not expect? 7. What do you think leadership believes about this team that is wrong? 8. What would you do in the first week if you were made CEO? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 us questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/us) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/us) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Us # 8 us questions For couples 1. What are you proud of us for this year? 2. Which of these is our strength? Options: We talk · We laugh · We forgive fast · We work hard · We show up · We are still here 3. What do our friends envy about us, and are they right? 4. What do we do that we would be embarrassed for anyone to see? 5. What do you think holds us together on the worst days? 6. What is a way we have failed each other that we have learned from? 7. If we had a family motto, what would it be? 8. What do you want to still be true about us in thirty years? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [19 vulnerability questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/vulnerability) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/vulnerability) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Vulnerability # 19 vulnerability questions For couples 1. What is something you have never told me because you were afraid of how I would react? 2. When did you last feel lonely in this relationship? 3. What do you think I am wrong about, that I refuse to see? 4. What is the kindest thing you have thought about me and never said out loud? 5. What part of yourself do you hide from almost everyone? 6. When did you last cry, and what was it about? 7. What compliment do you struggle to believe when you hear it? 8. How connected have you felt to me this week? Options: Very close · Fine · A bit distant · Genuinely disconnected 9. What is a way you have changed since we met that you are not sure I have noticed? 10. When you imagine me hearing your worst thought about myself, what do you hope I would say? 11. What do you pretend not to care about that you actually care about a great deal? 12. What is the kindest thing anyone has done for you that you never managed to thank them for properly? 13. What do you worry I would think less of you for, if you said it out loud? 14. When did you last feel genuinely proud of yourself, and did you tell anyone? 15. What is a compliment you have always wanted from me that I have never given? 16. Where in your life do you feel most like yourself? Options: With you · With old friends · Alone · At work · With family · Nowhere lately 17. What is something you are nervous about that is coming up soon? 18. What does your inner critic say most often? 19. What do you need to hear on a bad day, in the exact words? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 ways of working questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/ways-of-working) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/ways-of-working) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Ways of Working # 9 ways of working questions For teams 1. Which meeting would you cut first? 2. When are you at your sharpest in the day, and does our schedule respect it? 3. Where do you do your best thinking? Options: At my desk · Somewhere quiet at home · Walking · In a room with the team · In the shower, honestly 4. What is one tool or process you would delete tomorrow? 5. How much of your week is work, and how much is work about work? 6. What do you need to say no to more often, and what stops you? 7. What do we lose when we are not in the same room, and what do we gain? 8. When was the last time you were genuinely in flow at work, and what made it possible? 9. What is the one meeting you would keep if all others were cancelled? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 weekly catch-up questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/weekly-catch-up) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/weekly-catch-up) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Weekly Catch-up # 8 weekly catch-up questions For families and friends 1. What is one thing you are looking forward to this weekend? 2. On a scale of one to ten, how was your week, and what made it that number? 3. What did you eat this week that you want to tell someone about? 4. Which of these was your week? Options: Boring in a good way · Boring in a bad way · Chaos · Surprisingly nice · A blur 5. What is one thing you did not get done, and does it matter? 6. Who did you think about this week that you did not contact? 7. What is something you need to say out loud to make it real? 8. What would make next week better, in one small change? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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[Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 weekly wrap questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/weekly-wrap) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/weekly-wrap) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Weekly Wrap # 8 weekly wrap questions For teams 1. What went right this week that we should notice? 2. Which of these was this week? Options: Productive · Firefighting · Meetings · Waiting · Better than it looked 3. What is one thing you will not carry into Monday? 4. Who helped you this week, and have you said thank you? 5. What did you learn this week about how we work? 6. What are you proud of this week that nobody will put in a report? 7. What do you need next week to do your best work? 8. What frustrated you this week that you have not said? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 what you want questions for people dating](https://answersealed.com/questions/what-you-want) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/what-you-want) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / What You Want # 9 what you want questions For people dating 1. What do you want from dating right now, honestly? Options: Something serious · Seeing where it goes · Company and fun · Not sure yet · A partner for life 2. What does a good relationship look like to you, in one sentence? 3. What do you want your life to look like in five years? 4. Do you want children, and how sure are you? 5. What is something you want that you are shy about admitting? 6. What did you learn from your last relationship about what you want? 7. How much time together would feel right to you, in a good week? 8. What do you want a partner to bring out in you? 9. What would make you feel this is going well? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 where you live questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/where-you-live) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/where-you-live) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Where You Live # 8 where you live questions 1. What is the best thing about where you live right now? 2. Which of these would you change about your area? Options: The noise · The neighbours · The distance to things · The weather · The cost · Nothing, I love it 3. Who is your favourite local person, shopkeeper, neighbour or regular? 4. What did you not expect to love about where you live? 5. What do you miss about somewhere you used to live? 6. What would make you leave where you live? 7. What do you know about your street that nobody else here does? 8. Where would you want to be buried, or scattered, and why there? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 wisdom questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/wisdom) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/wisdom) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Wisdom # 8 wisdom questions 1. What is a truth you know but do not live by? 2. Which of these is wisdom, to you? Options: Knowing when to speak · Knowing when to stop · Knowing what you do not know · Knowing who to ask · Knowing what matters 3. What is the wisest thing anyone has said to you in the last year? 4. Who is the wisest person you know, and what makes them so? 5. What did you have to get wrong to understand? 6. What do you know for certain now that you would have argued against at twenty? 7. What piece of common wisdom do you think is wrong? 8. What would you want carved somewhere, in ten words or fewer? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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What would you wish for this group ten years from now? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 words questions for couples](https://answersealed.com/questions/words) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/words) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Words # 8 words questions For couples 1. What is a word you would use for our relationship that you have never used out loud? 2. Which of these words do you need to hear more? Options: Thank you · Sorry · I am proud of you · I want you · You were right 3. What is a phrase of mine that you love, and one you could do without? 4. What did I say once that you have never forgotten, good or bad? 5. What do you call me in your head? 6. What word describes how you feel about us today? 7. What is something you want to say that you do not have the words for yet? 8. What are the three words you would want to be the last you hear from me? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [9 work & calling questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/work-calling) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/work-calling) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Work & Calling # 9 work & calling questions For faith groups 1. How does what you believe show up in a normal Tuesday at work? 2. What part of your work feels most like it matters? 3. Which of these best describes your work right now? Options: A calling · A job that funds the real thing · A season I am enduring · A mission field · Not sure any more 4. Where at work do you compromise something you believe, and tell yourself it is small? 5. If money were not a factor, what would you do with your days, and why are you not doing it? 6. Who at work knows what you believe, and how did they find out? 7. What is the difference between your ambition and your calling, in practice? 8. Have you ever felt called to something and talked yourself out of it? 9. What was your first job, and what did it teach you? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 working style questions for teams](https://answersealed.com/questions/working-style) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/working-style) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Working Style # 12 working style questions For teams 1. What does a genuinely good day at work look like for you? 2. When are you at your sharpest during the day? 3. What kind of task drains you, even when you are good at it? 4. How do you like to be supported when you are stuck? 5. Do you think better by talking it through or by writing it down? 6. How do you prefer to start a meeting? Options: Straight into the agenda · Two minutes of small talk · A quick round of updates · Depends entirely on the meeting 7. What part of your job do you do well only because you are afraid of what happens if you do not? 8. What does this team not know about how you actually get your best work done? 9. If the team could see how you spend a full day, what would surprise them? 10. What is your most productive hour of the day? Options: Before 9 · Mid morning · After lunch · Late afternoon · After everyone has gone home 11. What kind of task do you put off longest? 12. Do you think best out loud or in silence, and does the team know? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 worship questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/worship) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/worship) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Worship # 8 worship questions For faith groups 1. What is one thing you did this week that you would call worship, outside a service? 2. Which of these is worship for you, really? Options: Singing · Silence · Serving · Being outdoors · Studying · Making something 3. What song or hymn can you not sing without something moving? 4. When does a service feel like a performance to you, and what would fix it? 5. What do you do in worship when you feel nothing? 6. What do you give your attention to that you would be uncomfortable calling worship? 7. What would you like this group to do together that you could not do alone? 8. When were you last surprised by God during something ordinary? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 would you rather questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/would-you-rather) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/would-you-rather) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Would You Rather # 8 would you rather questions For families and friends 1. Would you rather always be slightly too hot or slightly too cold? Options: Slightly too hot · Slightly too cold 2. Would you rather have more time or more money? Options: More time · More money 3. Would you rather know when you will die or how? Options: When · How · Neither 4. Would you rather never be able to travel again or never watch anything again? Options: Never travel · Never watch anything 5. Would you rather relive one day from the past or see one day from the future? Options: Relive one day from the past · See one day from the future 6. Would you rather be always ten minutes late or always twenty minutes early? Options: Always ten minutes late · Always twenty minutes early 7. Would you rather lose your phone for a month or your car for a month? Options: Phone · Car 8. Would you rather have a house full of people every weekend or nobody for a year? Options: Full house every weekend · Nobody for a year ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [8 year so far questions](https://answersealed.com/questions/year-so-far) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/year-so-far) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Year So Far # 8 year so far questions 1. What is the best thing that has happened to you this year so far? 2. Which of these has this year been? Options: Better than expected · Harder than expected · A blur · A turning point · Fine, and fine is good 3. What have you started this year that you want to keep? 4. What did you drop this year, and was it the right thing? 5. Who has surprised you this year? 6. What do you want the rest of the year to hold, in one sentence? 7. What is a lesson from this year you would rather not have needed? 8. What do you want to have been true of this year, when you look back? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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Who grew the most this year, and how? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [7 year in faith questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/year-in-faith) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/year-in-faith) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Year in Faith # 7 year in faith questions For faith groups 1. What is one word for the year so far, and one for what you hope is next? 2. What did God do this year that you did not ask for? 3. What did you pray for all year, and where did it land? 4. Who did this group become to you this year? 5. What are you carrying into the new year that you should leave behind? 6. What do you want to be able to say this time next year that you cannot say now? 7. What did you learn about yourself this year that you would rather not have? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [10 young families questions for families](https://answersealed.com/questions/young-families) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/young-families) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Young Families # 10 young families questions For families and friends 1. What was the best and worst thing about school today, or this week? 2. If you could make one family rule, what would it be? 3. Which of these is the best part of the weekend? Options: Pancakes · The park · Screens · A trip · Staying in pyjamas 4. What is something a grown-up in this family does that is funny? 5. What is one thing you wish we did more of as a family? 6. What makes you feel safe at home? 7. What do you think mum or dad worries about most? 8. What is something you are scared of that you have not said? 9. What was the kindest thing someone in this family did this week? 10. If our family were animals, which would each of us be? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. [Browse all question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) * * * Page: [12 youth questions for faith groups](https://answersealed.com/questions/youth) · [markdown](https://answersealed.com/md/questions/youth) [Question packs](https://answersealed.com/questions) / Youth # 12 youth questions For faith groups 1. What is the best thing about being part of this group? 2. What question about God have you been too embarrassed to ask an adult? 3. Which of these is hardest about faith at school or college? Options: Being the only one · Questions I cannot answer · Not wanting to seem weird · Friends who think it is a joke · None of it is hard 4. What do adults at church not understand about your life? 5. What do you believe because you decided to, not because your parents do? 6. Who do you know your age who is not a believer, and what do you admire about them? 7. What is something you have done this month that you would not want your youth leader to know? 8. What part of faith feels most real to you right now? 9. What do you want to be true about your faith at thirty? 10. Who is one adult here you trust, and why them? 11. What is a song, verse or moment where God felt near this year? 12. What would you want to say to your parents about faith if they promised not to react? ## Try answering these at the same time Reading a question out loud means whoever answers first sets the tone for everyone else. In Answersealed you each answer privately, and the answers only open once everyone has replied — so you get what people actually thought. 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